新加坡不结婚的单身男，把时间和金钱花在自己身上，有多爽

[TheApathetic]

果真非凡。

因这是块叉烧。

你对叉烧的定义是什么？
难道要哭哭啼啼才算不是叉烧吗？

 

[coyote]

small place, lousy weather, no scenary, pass. its for people who are boring and like being a sardine.....

got money ill go elsewhere to spend and enjoy........stay here suffer for wat......

I'm sitting relax on a bench at basement of anchor point, seeing people passing by. No crowd. Mr Diy and Ikea Alexander used to be places I frequent and finding many things to buy... Now my heart feel at peace ... I sat at a sofa at Ikea just now, waiting to see if I felt like checking anything out...after a while... Nothing interest me any more... I left. Mr. Diy is just next to the bench I'm sitting... Anything I need? Nothing again... So what material comfort?

Why do you feel bored? Why do you feel like sardine? Why do you need to spend your money like best bang of buck??? Because we are all just normal mortal human beings凡人一个. If you have so much grudges, how would you feel at peace? I'm also just a normal human being凡人一个.. Just maybe 2 steps further...

 

[coyote]

认清自己是凡人已是非凡之人！

继续为生活，以及身边爱你的人，加油！

谢谢你。

 

[AKsiao]

It doesn't matter if u got chio wife, fun kids, big house, nice cars or loads of cash. Its all the same. Everybody dies alone, nobody can die for u. At the end of it all, everything else is left behind. So stop shaming all the edmw bbfa, they are the ones who can really leave the world in dignity compared to most others who only leave heaps of trash behind.

 

[xdivider]

I'm sitting relax on a bench at basement of anchor point, seeing people passing by. No crowd. Mr Diy and Ikea Alexander used to be places I frequent and finding many things to buy... Now my heart feel at peace ... I sat at a sofa at Ikea just now, waiting to see if I felt like checking anything out...after a while... Nothing interest me any more... I left. Mr. Diy is just next to the bench I'm sitting... Anything I need? Nothing again... So what material comfort?

Why do you feel bored? Why do you feel like sardine? Why do you need to spend your money like best bang of buck??? Because we are all just normal mortal human beings凡人一个. If you have so much grudges, how would you feel at peace? I'm also just a normal human being凡人一个.. Just maybe 2 steps further...

I wun find peace with all the gaijins cramming around. Enjoy your malls i want real greens and real scenary and a temperate weather....

 

[Crescy]

这很简单
第一是独处的能力。 这是与生俱来的
第二如果你的亲人离世后，你没有任何感觉甚至可以一滴眼泪都不掉，你就绝非是常人。

兄弟果然人如其名

 

[coyote]

I wun find peace with all the gaijins cramming around. Enjoy your malls i want real greens and real scenary and a temperate weather....

Good luck.

 

[worldmap777]

humanity should end. since it is mostly suffering

 

[gravity_infinity]

60岁，会有更多的时间，看他还爽不爽，
70岁，会有更多更多的时间，看他还爽不爽。。。
80岁，他还在的话。。。

wait till ur kids dont even want to bother with u. or ur wife divorce u early early.

nowadays. u think still 白头偕老，养儿防老？ oh please

 

[Whimsica]

Still see people saying married with kids won't "die alone".

Means they die together with you?

And you are prolly in your 40s nia and kids still young and dependent and lanlan have to be with you.

Just look at your own self.

How much time are you spending with your parents?

Now think 30 years ahead.

Your kids will spend even less time with you because of all the distractions from modern life style.

 

[Honeydewz]

https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/...t-married-old-liao-is-it-very-jialat.6883703/

There a guy say dun married, old liao jialat

worse is married and divorced lost everything and die alone...



so might as well be alone play around and die alone.

 

[TheApathetic]

兄弟果然人如其名

来时欢喜去时悲，空在人间走一回，不如不来亦不去，亦无欢喜亦无悲

 

[yokine3a]

男女平等的世界，女人请花自己的钱， dun complain

I dun see any female edmwers complaining.

 

[yokine3a]

u are right, if really woman really want equal status, first thing they should do is eliminate woman's charter then can sit down and talk. otherwise no room to talk.

Sure, you are free to talk to yourself.

 

[xdivider]

worse is married and divorced lost everything and die alone...



so might as well be alone play around and die alone.

last few cases in newspaper seem to be like that, old man one like kids dun even visit any more. onus is on yourself to prepare your needs. if really going to rot here, best is to have regular delivery so that the minute the deliveryman see untouched stuff for days he will call someone to clear up the corpse.......

 

[yokine3a]

if u really really need a companion at 60yo, supply out there would be enormous anyway

That's why I dunno why men still wanna complain in edmw.

 

[Crescy]

来时欢喜去时悲，空在人间走一回，不如不来亦不去，亦无欢喜亦无悲

无欲无求 顺其自然

 

[coyote]

wait till ur kids dont even want to bother with u. or ur wife divorce u early early.

nowadays. u think still 白头偕老，养儿防老？ oh please

我也有想过你所说的所有可能性。我感觉都很平淡了。 他们不要我，是我做得不够好。 我也没有办法。目前我们一家人开开心心过了七八年了， 再来个个十年八年，就很好了。 什么事都没有绝对，没有什么天长地久，能够曾经拥有过她们。她们曾经让我牵肠挂肚，也让我火冒三丈，一看到她们，安心睡着了，我已经很开心满足了。我只希望他们长大，开心，迂愿足以。

Talk about divorce? My mum asked me before I gotten married. Is this girl for real, she is so pretty from morning wake up till bedtime, how you know she'll stay with you or even marry you. I told my mum, I don't. My wife ask me the same thing, how will I know she will stay with me or marry me. I told her the same. I don't know. But I will do my part to maintain our marriage. If she chosen to leave or not marry me in the end, that's her choice. Only years later, she explained to me why she chosen me ... I think I'm learning to be a husband and father... Nobody is ever prepared... Nobody promise you till death do us part... It's for us to keep that love together... Learning from my parents case, which I do not want to share how they stay together...

Think some wiseman once said, if you love her, let her go, if she comes back to you, she's your. 勉强从来都没有幸福的。

 

[Shutterbox]

Whatever one chooses to be, just come to terms with the decision n be at peace

 

[coyote]

来时欢喜去时悲，空在人间走一回，不如不来亦不去，亦无欢喜亦无悲

说得好听叫潇撒洒走一回，基本上就是白活了。