Advice on cheating GF

[䏣炆玧示老太]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

You slept someone else's future wife for free,why angry and upset?

 

[Jo13jo]

Wait and see. The best is if that 3rd party guy make her preggy then she suddenly find excuse wanna xx with u. Then u insist no xxx with her and see how she suffer.

She only had few choices :
Go for abortion, but then she need to explain the 1-2 days she need to MIA while she go hospital to abort. Not to mention the physical and emotional toll an abortion will have on her which she will find it very hard to hide from u.

Or give birth to the baby. But then how will she explain how she got the baby if she never xxx with u???

In before 3rd party guy always use rain coat, pull out before shoot or use back tunnel… TS wait till last day still no see gf preggy.

 

[Justanewbie]

Don’t confront unless you have clear evidence otherwise it will work against your favour. She will accuse you of mistrust and guilt trip you.

if really cheating, sure cannot hide coz she will behave very unusual like you said and one day it will expose. In this generation, if very secretive when texting on the phone is already a red flag.

Hope TS is wrong about his gf but if is true, hope you catch her soon and don’t give chance!

all the best.

 

[enimen]

In before 3rd party guy always use rain coat, pull out before shoot or use back tunnel… TS wait till last day still no see gf preggy.

Rain coat not shiok. And accidents happen

 

[louisoh]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

in my honest opinion.... once a ger cheats... its time to let go, no matter how hard it is.
It will only mean trouble in future. nuff said.

 

[Jo13jo]

Rain coat not shiok. And accidents happen

Some rain coats are dotted, more shiok for ladies. Can’t achieve the same effect unless u 入珠

 

[Teyemittisi]

TS must share which hotel.? Let us judge for you

 

[JAson1980]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

Last **** then break up with her lo. But confirm she is cheating first

 

[Acetone]

When women cheat, usually it’s gg … time to move on liao.

 

[luffix7]

You slept someone else's future wife for free,why angry and upset?

ya lor, tan tio liao

 

[RadEoNic]

Not I wanna say but….. is this a humble brag thread?

 

[lycanboy]

Joannetsy

No pic

 

[Capitalist]

Is your gf joeanne teo working as leasing manager?

Are you a chao digger or a saboteur .. or both?

 

[kan-kon]

downgrade her status lo.. becum fwb..

then ts can slowly looking for serious partner, if looking for lasting rs..

when found a potential partner, can cut off fwb temporarily..

when confirmed, can cut off for gud..

 

[enimen]

TS just make 2 posts and abandon this thread liao.

 

[BMWguy]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work.

I walk into hotels many times also...
Fullerton, raffles, intercontinental, hyatt... All main door to pass thru to elsewhere.. Doesn't mean I got open room....

But if u got more concrete info... Yes, break. Up to now, wat u say is suspicion of cheat nia...
Lie to u abt being at work is breaking trust tho... Up to u la... U got nothing to lose if break.

There is a bit of Red flag la.... she told him she OT but she ended up hotel? unless she went hotel eat buffet.. in that case she will say she going to makan after work, why say staying late for work?

 

[satkimania]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

Lol that's why I advocate no marriage
Don't worry bro... Once she reach 33 years old, wrinkles, metabolism dropping, smile lines, pigmentation all come out, waist line getting bigger... Then you just smirk and go for the next 21 years old girl

 

[Capitalist]

Lol that's why I advocate no marriage
Don't worry bro... Once she reach 33 years old, wrinkles, metabolism dropping, smile lines, pigmentation all come out, waist line getting bigger... Then you just smirk and go for the next 21 years old girl

For you, .. is it by (own) choice, or others'?

 

[SaintPeachie]

She could be at hotel to visit her female friend or relatives

 

[Lchlch]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

Not to pour cold water

Just break off...

And move on with your life.

You will find a better one.