Advice on cheating GF

[PetDog]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

 

[PetDog]

Asking for friend btw

 

[Bardiel]

prepare to go for golden bayonet and green beret.

Jokes aside. if i were u i just let go liao. don even bother look back

 

[ballastic90]

Find another one liao

 

[glarerder]

Try to pika pika again? If she reject, then you got your answer?

 

[Nevereatrice]

Your gf only u know how she is. U snatch her from her bf? U know her from where? Indecent places?

 

[congster2]

Asking for friend btw

In before friend = ts

 

[XuishX]

Just let go bah. Don’t waste time on her.

Be happy that you’d caught her before marriage, not after.

 

[domokun1212]

what other reason is there to go hotel at night?

 

[DrAwkward]

Forgot to log out your account?

 

[congster2]

Just let go bah. Don’t waste time on her.

Be happy that you’d caught her before marriage, not after.

Could u use your sharingan to confirm his suspicion?

 

[ahbard]

Dump and move on.

 

[dambio]

Asking for friend btw

Yes we know

Just give her d cold shoulder. If she will come back she will. Then can question her.

No point taking revenge. Just take it as u dodged a bullet b4 marrying her.

 

[trd_charlie]

Have you seen her literally enter the hotel with another man? Or saw intimate message exchanges on her phone? If not how can you be sure she's cheating?

 

[SecretAgent]

Asking for friend btw

 

[ZesiMuerte]

Why do people stay with cheating partner?

What do you hope to achieve when you caught your partner cheating?

Get back together? Can you trust him/her like you used to? Do you still see him/her in the same light?

Revenge? And what, land yourself in prison? Is it worth it?

Closure? What closure do you want? Is closure going to bring you peace? If your partner lies, would you know?

If your partner cheats on you, he/she is not a trustworthy person. Leave, move on. It's not that difficult, especially so if you are a man being cheated on. Always remember, su lang boh su seh. You obsessed over it, you lose your dignity. It's that simple.

 

[Okmolly]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

CSB

 

[Hello_Kitty]

she from which country???

 

[XuishX]

Could u use your sharingan to confirm his suspicion?

The person will need to speak with me for me to understand the person is a cheater or not. From body language to how the person behave can easily guess one.

 

[Shion]

the only way is to break up