Anybody here feel depressed on your way home from work?

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Darknights

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TS... most important thing is that you need to be comfortable in your own skin..
don't ever think that your colleagues are leading a better and happier life than you - no one is truly happy.

i used to be like you, envy about a certain group of cliques... who seemed fun and nice..
and after i get to know them better, it's nothing but a facade.

do whatever that makes you happy.
 

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Today I go home after work, while sitting on the MRT train feel depressed.

My colleagues were talking about girls and drinking. I BBFA never had girlfriend before never had sex before and never drink before. My colleagues gossiping say this girl from other department damn chio/hot, that girl from that department they managed to talk to her and jio her.. then I sit there just keep quiet. Then deep down I feel damn depressed because I feel like I got no chance at all with any of the girls.

What's worse is I'm about 1.68m only and a lot of my colleagues are taller than me. Then everytime I feel ***** inferior. And I'm not fit also, dont play any sports or activities while my colleagues outside got a lot of activities and sports one.

Then sometimes my colleagues crack some jokes but is making fun of me one, then I just laugh along but deep inside I feel angry and disrespected.

Today I going home that time, while during my walk and during my mrt ride I just keep thinking about all these.. then I feel ***** depressed.

Then I try and console myself, say aiya.. is work only so I just go work collect my pay and fk off, don't need think so much about what colleagues say. But then my whole life, I also had that kind of mentality.. even during my schooling days. Then end up, I am forever alone, no friends, never had a girlfriend before. When I sit on the MRT or walk outside and see so many chio girls I feel dam sad again. Why can't I even get any one of them to be my girlfriend.

Haiz. Just depressed af right now.
I wfh so am permanently depressed
 

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Actually no need make comeback one.. :o can learn to let go.. I guess it hurts cause their jokes hit on ur insecurities..if these are not ur insecurities then they won’t affect Chiu. So learn to look past these insecurities and they won’t hurt anymore..


in life only the bad quality pple talk and make pple feel bad abt themselves.. don’t think Chiu is should be like them…
its true.. i just need to learn let go.

now im sitting at home, just showered and ate dinner, chat with my family and now sitting playing computer games. i feel happy again.
 

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more importantly is how much are you earning? if not earning much really ish depressing, if you earn mid to high income at least got $$$
i earn very pathetic fresh grad kind of salary only.. basically i am just average earner like everybody else
 

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Yes nothing to be proud if you can drink but still can be xia suay when you cannot even drink a can of beer.
i cannot drink a can of beer fast will get too bloated and puke my body is born like that..i no feel xia suay at all
 

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Today I go home after work, while sitting on the MRT train feel depressed.

My colleagues were talking about girls and drinking. I BBFA never had girlfriend before never had sex before and never drink before. My colleagues gossiping say this girl from other department damn chio/hot, that girl from that department they managed to talk to her and jio her.. then I sit there just keep quiet. Then deep down I feel damn depressed because I feel like I got no chance at all with any of the girls.

What's worse is I'm about 1.68m only and a lot of my colleagues are taller than me. Then everytime I feel ***** inferior. And I'm not fit also, dont play any sports or activities while my colleagues outside got a lot of activities and sports one.

Then sometimes my colleagues crack some jokes but is making fun of me one, then I just laugh along but deep inside I feel angry and disrespected.

Today I going home that time, while during my walk and during my mrt ride I just keep thinking about all these.. then I feel ***** depressed.

Then I try and console myself, say aiya.. is work only so I just go work collect my pay and fk off, don't need think so much about what colleagues say. But then my whole life, I also had that kind of mentality.. even during my schooling days. Then end up, I am forever alone, no friends, never had a girlfriend before. When I sit on the MRT or walk outside and see so many chio girls I feel dam sad again. Why can't I even get any one of them to be my girlfriend.

Haiz. Just depressed af right now.

You may be poor at sports but fitness can be built up. Join a running or cycling club, get fit and expand your circle of friends. You’d never know when Cupid might strike.

For the opposite sex, dun be too infatuated with the super chio ones. Some girls are not beautiful but they are attractive in their own way. And don’t write off the plain janes, some girls really have an irresistible personality.
 

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If you are not truly trolling for once , i can relate to you as well. Height is really one aspect that actually make guy develop a deep sense of inferior complexity in life. As a guy who is only 1.69m short and often got make fun because of my short height and also i know i won't be physically attractive enough to attract anyone also. I kinda see though that and i just turn turned to FL and ML to fulfill whether lust that i have.

Have been Single and alone in my entire life and likely so until the end of my life.
 

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@SuddenlyFeelSleepy xdd, when i started working i also thought i wanted be part of the cool cliques so i try to blend in

but i realize it is pointless cause right now you are a fish trying to climb a tree

embrace who u are and spend the time improving yourself, i wish i spent my time doing that in the past

for now, please don't bother hanging out with pple that try to laugh at you there is no need to placate them
 

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u 1.68? i'm only 1.66m.

the thing about guys is that, u need to be vocal. need to know how to sweet talk not too much.. but at the right time.
 

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ts got 200k still feel depressed?
Even if he got 2 million , he can't increase his height also. height is really one important aspect to be physically attractive for guys.

I rather have only 100k now and be >=1.8m tall then to have >=1 million dollars worth of asset but shorter than <=1.70m.

Money can always find way to earn but height stay forever until you enter the grave.
 
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