Anyone having an 'open relationship' here??

Sylar22

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'duties' means attending parents' birthday celebrations, CNY reunion etc etc.

at home still sleep in same room.

My child's friend recently parents (about 60 yo) getting a divorce. Basically the dad said kids all grown up and he wants a life of his own before it is 'too late'. His kids (around 30 yo) were shocked as all thought their parents were loving. After they heard their dad pouring out his sorrows in tears (about having to put up with a domineering wife for years for the sake of keeping family peace and unable to pursue own interest etc), they supported his decision. (the divorce decision was triggered by something quite minor, like a piece of used tissue on the table and the wife nagged and nagged and nagged and he finally decided enough is enough).
Nagging is the worst. It’s like mental tortur everyday.
 

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If moi ish single no gf and girl is married, considered open relationship?

No ****, only spend time together
 

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Humans are not meant to be monogomous for life one la

Marriage is a human construct u resd the history

It was created by kings to control serfs

Even in 1970s sg many rich men had 3 wives
 

Sylar22

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Humans are not meant to be monogomous for life one la

Marriage is a human construct u resd the history

It was created by kings to control serfs

Even in 1970s sg many rich men had 3 wives
This is true. We can try to suppress the urge but we cannot defy our genetics and self preservation urges
 

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Open relationship is not about emotion, it's about companionship.
That said; looks like there is no such thing as taking the relationship to a new level in an open relationship. Happy come
Not happy leave. :o dun owe each other 💩
 
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That said; looks like there is no such thing as taking the relationship to a new level in an open relationship. Happy come
Not happy leave. :o dun owe each other 💩
Something like that, open relationship is about live each day at a time and see how long can each other fate with each other be . divorced people who after going one round of marriage become jaded and just looking for companionship not fix relationship.
 

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A lot everywhere. U go those club and bars, can find.

Open relationship means your partner and you can have multiple partners with intimate relationships at the same time or 2 vs 2 with another couple.
PAP having open relationship with FT considered?
 

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Nagging is the worst. It’s like mental tortur everyday.

Marriage for life is not easy. I don't see many happy marriages (couples around 50+ yo) around me.

Recently I attended a very lavish wedding of a young couple (both are 'childhood sweethearts'). The groom looking 'meek' and the bride behaving very domineering (even in front of all guests, dont 'give face' type). Though I wished them 'happily ever after', deep in my heart I really wondering whether their marriage will last (before the guy 'explodes' one day. I always believe 人的忍耐是有限度的.).
 

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U enter a relationship, engaged.
Then if the relationship failed, please exit and close it properly.
Open relationship is for people who are lazy, coward, does not want to be responsible.
 
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