Anyone here after marry wife tell her stay at home be housewife?

[testart]

Like say u take care of her, feed her and provide her.

Tell her no need go outside work. Just stay home will do.

Say ur income is sufficient.

If wan work, have to discuss with u first?

 

[Sammiegirl00]

Shld such breed exists, I doubt I can stay at home indefinitely.

 

[1982-1994]

what if my wife asks me to stay at home be a butler?

 

[JonWeak]

Maybe last time can bah. Unless your pay ish damn good lor

 

[eskimopalm]

You marry a maid better right?

 

[Ye_Rongtian]

You married a maid?

 

[GreatPumpkin]

Assuming you have kids and yr income is high enough, I think it's a good idea.

At least can spend time with the kids rather than use maid as surrogate parent.

 

[tankgunner]

she will be bored to death.

 

[ballastic90]

Don’t think so

 

[testart]

Maybe last time can bah. Unless your pay ish damn good lor

I know 2 guys their wife stay home be housewife after marriage. One generation above me.

Same gen as me got 2 guys also wife stay home be housewife after marriage.

 

[buttbERry]

here all bbfas

simi wife

 

[KPO_SAHM]

My hubby allowed me to stay home when we were around 32 years old. Currently I am 43. Once we paid off hdb n total debt free, that time I have 2 kids. Now I have 3. Went through psle with my eldest. Did all the coaching ...bo tution.


We didn wan to hire a helper. Rather I be a housewife. 10years have passed. Now kids have grown up. But my youngest is at 4...I still have to be a housewife till my youngest completes psle.赚少花生少，赚多存多lor. It's all depending what u what and what type of lifestyle u r going for.

 

[EDMW-Hates-Me]

My hubby allowed me to stay home when we were around 32 years old. Currently I am 43. Once we paid off hdb n total debt free, that time I have 2 kids. Now I have 3. Went through psle with my eldest. Did all the coaching ...bo tution.


We didn wan to hire a helper. Rather I be a housewife. 10years have passed. Now kids have grown up. But my youngest is at 4...I still have to be a housewife till my youngest completes psle.

If you don't mind me asking, what were you working as and you plan to go back to work after your youngest completes psle?

 

[rachdanon]

If she takes care of kid and the house she is actually "earning an income" because if you got someone to take care of those things like a maid, childcare etc you would have to pay for them. Also, nothing beats the mom being with the child. "世上只有妈妈好，有妈的孩子像块宝" cannot be put into monetary terms.

 

[KPO_SAHM]

If you don't mind me asking, what were you working as and you plan to go back to work after your youngest completes psle?

Previously worked in a supply chain of a big MNc japanese co (for more than 10 years) ....after completion youngest psle .....just see which job comes along the way. I am not so picky . Even ask me to work in restaurants I am also ok

 

[leemonstrap]

My hubby allowed me to stay home when we were around 32 years old. Currently I am 43. Once we paid off hdb n total debt free, that time I have 2 kids. Now I have 3. Went through psle with my eldest. Did all the coaching ...bo tution.


We didn wan to hire a helper. Rather I be a housewife. 10years have passed. Now kids have grown up. But my youngest is at 4...I still have to be a housewife till my youngest completes psle.赚少花生少，赚多存多lor. It's all depending what u what and what type of lifestyle u r going for.

will you go for material branded items? or just simple life with no luxury

 

[maxsee039]

I make it clear to my girlfriend before we start dating that i expect her to sacrifice her job if the need arise for her to stay home. I make it clear that i am looking for someone who embodies the traditional values of 三从四德,相夫教子.

There are some girls that are against this, but i am fine with it. End of the day it is about finding the right fit for your life. Beside i am able to give them a life that they can only dream of, so if they want to pass on this. I am sure there are others that are willing to take it up.

PS : Never sacrifice a whole jungle for a single tree that don't reciprocate.

 

[Lchlch]

Like say u take care of her, feed her and provide her.

Tell her no need go outside work. Just stay home will do.

Say ur income is sufficient.

If wan work, have to discuss with u first?

The main question is , ‘provide her’ how much monthly allowance?

 

[Grayskies]

I make it clear to my girlfriend before we start dating that i expect her to sacrifice her job if the need arise for her to stay home. I make it clear that i am looking for someone who embodies the traditional values of 三从四德,相夫教子.

There are some girls that are against this, but i am fine with it. End of the day it is about finding the right fit for your life. Beside i am able to give them a life that they can only dream of, so if they want to pass on this. I am sure there are others that are willing to take it up.

PS : Never sacrifice a whole jungle for a single tree that don't reciprocate.

Hmm, u have a gf?

 

[lifeafter41]

I make it clear to my girlfriend before we start dating that i expect her to sacrifice her job if the need arise for her to stay home. I make it clear that i am looking for someone who embodies the traditional values of 三从四德,相夫教子.

There are some girls that are against this, but i am fine with it. End of the day it is about finding the right fit for your life. Beside i am able to give them a life that they can only dream of, so if they want to pass on this. I am sure there are others that are willing to take it up.

PS : Never sacrifice a whole jungle for a single tree that don't reciprocate.

So far any luck?
With the 三从四德 thingy……