dont scare yourself..what do u expect to see ? So far i can only sense and there was once, white fog appeared before me..the bros and sisters in the hunger ghost realm are thankful and appreciate of your merit dedication.They know they are ugly enough so they will dedinitely not appear before someone who can dedicate merits to them.
dont scare yourself..what do u expect to see ? So far i can only sense and there was once, white fog appeared before me..the bros and sisters in the hunger ghost realm are thankful and appreciate of your merit dedication.They know they are ugly enough so they will dedinitely not appear before someone who can dedicate merits to them.
Supposed to come here on last Sunday but it was raining heavily
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All these are rituals and "Gong" etc are more Tibetian based than Mahayana based
To be honest I am personally conflicted between these two schools.
I see these offerings and rituals as a way to practice metta, but my faith in if they work is still not solid.
Hungry Ghost and Hell beings, if the 6 realms exist, it would mean there are literally a whole world of them, maybe billions and more than the number of people on this earth
Even in the human realm, when you do good and offer things to other humans, you get backstabbed. The reality of the world is that doing good does not mean you should expect good in return. In the real world, I have done good deeds for people only to be stabbed in the back by the same people. What's to say these spirits might do the same?
What if during one of such offerings and let say I go to really dense and haunted places and I encounter an especially malevolent spirit that wants to disturb and disturb my cultivation and purposely impede my spiritual journey?
Your answer to me would be to, I will be protected by the triple gem and the Bodhisattvas that I pray to the most (Guan Yin).
But agents of light, our connection to them, to the triple gem and to Guan Yin, our connection to them is based on faith
and as a human being, faith is something that is wavering for me. it goes up and it goes down from time to time.
What if by pure chance I encounter the especially malevolent spirit when my faith was at its weakest?
My previous hesitation was that if I poke the ant nest, even if it was done in an effort to help them, I am messing with things and beings beyond my capability.
The safest route is to not poke the ant nest.
that is my thinking.
moreover, I hope doing such rituals will not end up with me forgetting that the whole point is to develop metta and the bodhi heart and compassion
I am very honestly just conflicted between different schools of thought for Buddhism.
I don't know what got me started doing the smoke offering recently, but it felt right, so i just follow what feels right.
Yet I have to do it secretively because of the common people (for example my mum) who don't understand what I am doing, they think I am praying to the devil for 4D numbers. I had to do all these secretively.
anyway just sharing.
i don't have a clear answer as to why i scare myself, other than that i am human and that as a human being, faith is something that goes up and down
the 1st time when I did offering to the sentient beings, my fear was what if they come and dont go away and not what if they appeared b4 me. Subsequent offering, my fear has changed to what if they dont come !
You know I will have this hair standing sensation when something is around but after picking up and doing 施食 for near 2 weeks, I couldnt sense anything and was worried that I could have chant the mantra wrongly or the procedure was wrong. There was 1 morning around 4++am and I went to the river bank and did my offering there, still unable to detect anything so I ask politely in mandarin whether I have chanted the mantra correctly and have they receive the merits. suddenly white fog appeared b4 me and every single hair on my body stand like nobody business. nothing scary and thats the type of warmth sensation you experience when you return home after a long time overseas. I feel so welcoming. Since then I develop this type of connection and maybe they want to reinforce my faith. AMTF
continue with your spiritual practice. you will find something or 法门 that suits you the best
on the first day of me burning the incense, I was worried they won't come.
i was also worried if I chanted wrongly, or if English prayers will work.
i did feel my hair standing on ends when i close my eyes and chant
but i remind myself the most important is still developing compassion, even for the unknown.
my family members,
two of them are completely no spiritual and emotionally weak.
my only worry is that what if one day an evil spirit follow me home and bring downfall to them.
sometimes, i wish i have my own place so I can more conducively practice
but yea, most and bulk of the worry is towards my uncultivated family members who are very weak in their own spiritual beliefs
A&W Shi Xiong , I can concur with your statement "Sentient beings will not blame us if we can't do it"
As you might not be aware , beside the usual daily chanting, I only focus on 施食 or offering to the sentient beings. Its only recent that I started to pick up sutra copying again. 施食 has been my daily practice, do it everyday and almost everywhere BUT i actually stopped doing it during our circuit breaker and only resume it in October. Yes I stopped 施食 for near 6 months ! why cause my 2 elders at home thought I was possessed and toying with all these sentient beings and demand me to stop at all cost ! I obey reluctantly.
End sep, happened to meet someone with high level of spiritual connectivity. We were having our usual chit chat and I told him I did 施食. Suddenly a statement pop out from him, he mentioned I was actually doing it daily and diligently but suddenly stopped but the sentient beings are appreciative but aware of the dilemma I am in so they WILL NOT BLAME ME ! He also told me whether I could sense men in white around me, he said these are my divine protectors. He encouraged me to continue with my spiritual practice
after hearing his statement, I am more determined to carry on 施食 at all cost. Manage to convince my seniors at home so here i come again
The statement 'sentient beings won't blame us for not available to do the offerings' was said by Hai Tao Fashi. Thanks for sharing. What the 高人 said tallied with what Hai Tao Fashi.
Detailed explanations on smoke offerings. This lady is a fortune teller. She said smoke offerings is 行善积德. She advised those who are unlucky to do smoke offerings to change their life to a better one.
I believe the make up of the hungry ghost realms is diverse and probably more diverse than we experience in our vicinity in our human realms. Who are these beings ? They are simply you and me if we don’t success in our practice ! We have a chance to reincarnate there or any other realms. So the good and evil we see here will be similarly be present there. However, there are much, much more that we don’t know. Do we know how Africans think ? Or those people in South America ? Only lately, then I have a better appreciation what White Supremacist is.
When sentient beings are born in the hungry ghost realm, they also have powers which we don’t. So I would not build a lasting relationship with any individual or groups. Humans can be friends one day and enemies another.
But that does not mean I don’t do offerings. I do during the 7th month. And also during 法会. In the former, I just offer, 随缘. Whoever comes along can take it and we go separate ways. In the latter, the temples and the 法师 in 法会 are in control. So I trust them to do their jobs. I was told not to do such proceedings on our own (which I didn’t intend to do anyway). In these 法会, eg 三时, you invite sentient beings from the different realms when the process starts and send them back when it ends. But you need to know how to do it correctly. There is a saying: 请神容易送神难.
I think as a beginner, it’s better to follow somebody more experienced so that one do it correctly.
Cheers, 南无阿弥陀佛
All these are rituals and "Gong" etc are more Tibetian based than Mahayana based
To be honest I am personally conflicted between these two schools.
Food+ medicine.
Can get from taobao or a shop in aljunied.
Some shops selling Buddhist stuff should have similar incense.
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So if one do standard 晚课, can use this instead ?
I think Wan ker the 施食 is rice grain n water n just hand gestures as it’s relying on Buddha mantra to do the 施食?