[CONSOLIDATED] Lchlch's office issues

Lchlch

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My senior colleagues are more sincere, I guess they have no ulterior motive. Easy ones I do, they volunteer to handle the complicated cases. May be TS's colleague is afraid of retrenchment.
Bro , gd morning.
Nowadays, I just doc it down.
I just make sure I know how to execute even I dnt get the chance to do it frequently.
It is not easy.
But afterall, it's just a job.
But they think differently.
 

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It's the mentality, very childish..

fear u r coming to take over their job, fear u becomes more imprnt ,more valuable than them, fear u overtake them ! wants to be the alpha!

Fact is, nobody is indispensable, nobody is irreplacable!
 

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Every encounter such colleagues?
Any task, he will do.
When you started to do, he will say I do.

Another is he will say, : ‘’你放下, 我作我作‘"

literally , you hv no chance to do except the person on leave or you alone..

Your valuable thoughts please.
Dun know why I suddenly thought of my late aunt.
‘’你放下, 我作我作‘" is what she used to say. We saw how she is treated
at home by my uncle, As 外甥, we very hard to step in. My mum
always quarrel with his brother over this. But my aunt always try to say
her life is like that - 劳碌命 mybfd.
It is these words that makes me very mad with my uncle also.
But when she nearly met her end she treat herself a bit.
But not long after she passed away.

I know the topic is on colleagues but perhaps there are some who
really think hard work earns them the right to live. The right to be one
community. Its difficult to change their mindset. I think the only way
is to do the things together with them. Let them know harmony
is about sharing, including workloads and jokes.

She is a Moon Cancer btw. Perhaps that explains why.
 

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Every encounter such colleagues?
Any task, he will do.
When you started to do, he will say I do.

Another is he will say, : ‘’你放下, 我作我作‘"

literally , you hv no chance to do except the person on leave or you alone..

Your valuable thoughts please.
I did that, when I was told to let go of my staff. 😂
 

Lchlch

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hmmmz.............. on one end u can believe that he has the intention to show off to boss he is hardworking

on the flip side, he may be like me, I rather do myself because i dont trust u to be able to do anything correctly.
Probably so.
To show others he can, yet told me gonna resign.
Doesn't make sense with his wordd n not match.
 

Lchlch

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My senior colleague also loh

Think she like to have the feeling to be the MVP

Sometimes is becuz certain things to be done in a certain way also. So end up she say she do

But all these things add up and end up the plate full.

Then things get over due , then got problem

So I also dunno why she don't want to delegate out
Mine almost like that.
He can forget, then say fast fast he forget this n that due to this n that.
Of its ne, he started to lecture me liao.
 

Lchlch

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It’s in their DNA. Sometimes they will wait for others to be proactive to help share the load. Why don’t TS volunteer to eat from her plate too?
Yes I always initiate to help, but he say leave it leave it or I do I do.

Okay loh, I dnt do...
I keep quiet n do my things.
 

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Every encounter such colleagues?
Any task, he will do.
When you started to do, he will say I do.

Another is he will say, : ‘’你放下, 我作我作‘"

literally , you hv no chance to do except the person on leave or you alone..

Your valuable thoughts please.

means it is less work and less stressful for him to do it than to kio sai after you mess up :(
 

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Every encounter such colleagues?
Any task, he will do.
When you started to do, he will say I do.

Another is he will say, : ‘’你放下, 我作我作‘"

literally , you hv no chance to do except the person on leave or you alone..

Your valuable thoughts please.
(1) If those things the colleague snatched to do is not inside your JD, just let him.

(2) If those things are inside your JD or related to your JD, NO NO NO.

Ignoring (2) will reduce your reason to exist in the organization and would highly likely lead to your eventual demise in the organization. BE CAREFUL!
 
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