Curious: At which point will EDMWers consider divorce?

[couch.potato]

bbfas where got such probs?

At which point bbfa will give up on one JAV actress?

 

[ShinnAsuka]

When you are thinking of it

 

[couch.potato]

Go google divorce by combat

I not confident to fight leh…

 

[glarerder]

No marriage no divorce

 

[couch.potato]

Dun fantasize too much. Go out there n get 1 la.

Moving to Shanghai nao
Aiya look good on outside only. I can speak Korean and thus know that Korean men only look good on tv. So I continue dating my tv men

tv handsome men will never let u down. They will never make u sad. Sometimes they even free topless for u to enjoy their nice abs.

*really sound a bit sot sot

 

[couch.potato]

When you are thinking of it

That’s actually a good food for thought.
If have this thought already, will stop having it when things change?

or is there just people who never even think of divorce before?

 

[Philipkee]

The thing is abuse can be viewed very widely.

Yes. It’s actually supposed to mean physical abuse but not all abuse is physical. But once you go into the realm of non physical abuse, example emotional abuse, anything can be considered abuse. So it’s really up to the individual’s conscience

 

[buttbERry]

At which point bbfa will give up on one JAV actress?

Bbfas no such exp

 

[couch.potato]

Yes. It’s actually supposed to mean physical abuse but not all abuse is physical. But once you go into the realm of non physical abuse, example emotional abuse, anything can be considered abuse. So it’s really up to the individual’s conscience

Ya, I think life was simpler (but more brutal) back then that divorce can be justified more easily and… more categorically.
Today the world is complicated. We are both more free to pursue divorce (amongst other things) but also more trapped than ever (living in our small cages between work and home). Life has become both bigger and smaller.

so problems have also become more complex and nuanced… which is why I asked the question haha.

do people eventually give up even if it’s a minor issue that started resentment? Or do we still only subscribe to the belief that it is “big” issues or nothing?

 

[couch.potato]

Bbfas no such exp

True, I guess it’s only when the JAV actress retires… auto stop…

 

[ShinnAsuka]

That’s actually a good food for thought.
If have this thought already, will stop having it when things change?

or is there just people who never even think of divorce before?

The correct order is of you feel a problem is the relationship, communication would come first. Thinking of divorce would be the last resort.

exception is abuse and affair/adultery

 

[couch.potato]

The correct order is of you feel a problem is the relationship, communication would come first. Thinking of divorce would be the last resort.

exception is abuse and affair/adultery

Ya, probably after many rounds of communication until no hope then think of divorce. So how much communication and compromise until it gets there?

 

[Philipkee]

Ya, I think life was simpler (but more brutal) back then that divorce can be justified more easily and… more categorically.
Today the world is complicated. We are both more free to pursue divorce (amongst other things) but also more trapped than ever (living in our small cages between work and home). Life has become both bigger and smaller.

so problems have also become more complex and nuanced… which is why I asked the question haha.

do people eventually give up even if it’s a minor issue that started resentment? Or do we still only subscribe to the belief that it is “big” issues or nothing?

By right, it’s only the big issues or nothing. By left, a lot of grey areas

 

[couch.potato]

By right, it’s only the big issues or nothing. By left, a lot of grey areas

Sometimes built-up resentment can be worse than abandonment. Got see so many older ladies finally at 70+ then talk about how they hate their entire marriage.

 

[Philipkee]

Sometimes built-up resentment can be worse than abandonment. Got see so many older ladies finally at 70+ then talk about how they hate their entire marriage.

Yes. It’s very sad when this happens. If they were happy initially but over time it turned bad, it’s still not so bad. But if they were unhappy from DAY ONE, that’s really sad

 

[li9ht5peed]

So u are the compromiser lor which is not a bad thing but do u think u will snap over the minor things she gets annoyed over eventually?

she does alot of dumb things, but my tolerance threshold is v high, coz there's nothing too evil for me. conversely nothing is too good for either. i don't have a fixed concept of good or evil, but rather an elastic view which acts to constrain my speech & action to accomplish specific goals. i can adopt different personalities to put murderers and ministers at ease, or make them uncomfortable

 

[kan-kon]

At which point, what is the boundary crossed, that u feel must divorce riao no other way?

3rd party?

domineering?

 

[人造人16 号]

If you marry a wife like this, u will never think of divorce

 

[li9ht5peed]

Ya I can tell u
See handsome one scold u, or lying on the sofa potato, or little bit then guailan… is much more enjoyable than seeing a bbfa do all those things.

men on edmw complain girls become dinobu but honestly lots of singaporean men also become Dino after marriage… and still feel they quite yandao… girls got more 容貌焦虑 and want to keep pretty

totally agreed. my wife is very conscious of her appearance. my daughter same. i have to tell her to spend more time reading books & stretching her body, instead of sitting there combing her hair for don't know what purpose

 

[couch.potato]

she does alot of dumb things, but my tolerance threshold is v high, coz there's nothing too evil for me. conversely nothing is too good for either. i don't have a fixed concept of good or evil, but rather an elastic view which acts to constrain my speech & action to accomplish specific goals. i can adopt different personalities to put murderers and ministers at ease, or make them uncomfortable

Even though u abit OT, but I play along
I don’t think it’s evil per se.
Most times it’s just how one party deals with stressors, life, frustrations. So u, as the compromiser, always just receive it? How much is too much?

so by your words is it will never be too much. Which is great for ur wife and ur marriage lah.