Does any man here feels tired?

[Tabula Rasa]

You looking for wife or prostitute?

What he is saying is, these people have a prostitute mentality. They're looking for a transactional relationship, they would have to be offering something as part of their end of the transaction too.

 

[mastermember]

Replying on behalf of his majesty of Brunei.

 

[Kia7200]

Short and plump can find hubby easily meh?

As long she is not delulu.
Most if not all sg female have suitors .

Example regina kam, somemore ppl mistress

 

[Jude Raphael]

But the provider thingy, I found it true. On instagram, there are these seemingly "high" quality lady (in terms of visual looks only), that constantly talks about man should be provider etc.

I see le honestly very turn off.
It felt like they're not looking for relationship, they're looking more for transaction.

Deep down im always thinking, okay if u want a guy to provide money whenever you ask for money, then u should provide the guy with sex whenever he ask for sex.

Well, I am sure there are all sorts of people around. I have always believed that there is a list of "criteria" that we have when seeking a partner. I used to have this list too. I have always thought that my partner should conform to certain expectations of mine before I would deem her as...."IDEAL". IS THIS CONSIDERED AS TRANSACTIONAL??? You fulfil certain requests of mine and I may fulfil certain of yours.

Do not laugh at me, but I used to think that it would have been easier to fulfil these "criteria" and find a girl from Penang e.g. as I deemed the girls there as simpler and probably less demanding. I was 18 then. I had these thoughts till I was 20. Truth was, I thought that I would be deemed as a "better" catch than the local guys. Sadly. I know how foolish these thoughts sound now.

Truth is, you may always go and find out if this were true or not. Do not let any one tell you otherwise. After all I am sure that you have heard of this, "you say, I think, who confirms"? Go and find a real person to interact and date to find out more about a person's character. No one said that men are angels with no faults.

Ai yo, why turn to Insta to know someone? You do not know their intentions behind these accounts.

 

[XiaoChilli]

Just chop off kkj! Half man half the problem! Easy solution.

Can chop halfway. Lol

 

[XiaoChilli]

Women more cham. If born ugly only then life is almost over..

 

[XiaoChilli]

Starting to worry for my boy who is going to be born
Hope he will not be burdened by responsibilities.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

As long she is not delulu.
Most if not all sg female have suitors .

Example regina kam, somemore ppl mistress

That one, I have no answer. But you see some of those bengs, not very good looking, very rough, smoke and drink a lot, but got chio ah lian to date.

 

[XiaoChilli]

That one, I have no answer. But you see some of those bengs, not very good looking, very rough, smoke and drink a lot, but got chio ah lian to date.

The ah lian tk too much drugs, brain blur

 

[lasnoblur]

men - always portrayed as the gender with more responsibility
women - always portrayed as weaker gender but last decade have pushed for equality

in a relationship or family, men still have to pay for most expenses.
traditionally, women expected to stay home and take care of house, cook etc but last few decades have also changed.

overall, unfortunately men still expected to take care of almost everything. whereas for women, it is optional to take care of things.

 

[Icychemist]

Women more cham. If born ugly only then life is almost over..

as a guy, i agree.

because sadly, biologically, not that we asked for it to be designed this way, is that we are visual animals and are attracted by the eyes, while women are attracted by the ears.

so a guy can be ugly as crap, but if know how to sweet talk, also can get (most) girl. not the smarter ones though.

 

[Icychemist]

Starting to worry for my boy who is going to be born
Hope he will not be burdened by responsibilities.

prepare money for him.

money resolve all responsibilities.

 

[Hakuna Matata]

Live each day as it comes.
Things may not be perfect, but be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.

 

[Kia7200]

That one, I have no answer. But you see some of those bengs, not very good looking, very rough, smoke and drink a lot, but got chio ah lian to date.

Most probably that ah beng is the leader, have a fast pmd or parents give him good allowances

U nv see many fat ugly female married? As long they demand too much like 3/10 demanding a 7/10

 

[Tabula Rasa]

Most probably that ah beng is the leader, have a fast pmd or parents give him good allowances

U nv see many fat ugly female married? As long they demand too much like 3/10 demanding a 7/10

I see lousy guys getting married also. Some things have no explanation de.

 

[Icychemist]

That one, I have no answer. But you see some of those bengs, not very good looking, very rough, smoke and drink a lot, but got chio ah lian to date.

i won't envy them though.

the lian can be chio, but i doubt most of them will be good wife/mother material.

i prefer a smart woman.

 

[XiaoChilli]

prepare money for him.

money resolve all responsibilities.

Need to teach him how to chao keng

 

[XiaoChilli]

I see lousy guys getting married also. Some things have no explanation de.

Define lousy..

 

[Kia7200]

I see lousy guys getting married also. Some things have no explanation de.

Ya true. I also wonder how those guys can find wives

 

[BohemianSG]

As I grow from a boy to become a man, I just realised it is tough being a man. Woman and children expect you to provide. Country expect you to protect. It seems like everything you do is not for yourself, but for everybody else. Not gonna lie, I honestly am tired.

Understand that as a Man in this era, any attention or value you have or love is always conditional. Nothing to complain to be tired about. Its just the game setttings.