First most of all he should accept that it was his fault because he was a drug addict and he shouldn't get married in the first place. If he wasn't he could have been a good father and husband in his first marriage. Then he wouldn't have married a second and third time.
Secondly, if he has learned something during his imprisonment or "NO MAN'S LAND" he would have made it the first time when he was released from prison. He would have stayed faraway from his drug addict friends or his ex inmate friends in order not get involved with drug consumption again and make himself "SUSAH DATANG LAGI" or stressful.
Thirdly, if he had been sentenced a longer period in imprisonment like 10 years (rather than in and out during short prison sentence) or more maybe he would have learned his mistakes better and feel very remorseful of his stupid actions. Then he wouldn't forget all the hardship in prison and unable to do anything for his family in Singapore out there during his time in "NO MAN'S LAND." If he has sit through very long sentence I'm very sure he won't be so EGO like he is right now.
He would have stay low profile, continue his life quietly and become A BETTER MAN than he is right now.
Shouldnt a woman pick a responsible good man reproduce?
In modern days, any female r easily few diff suitors to choose from?
And there r always huge numbers of sg female go pick the bad boys to have unprotected sex, then shot gun marriage.
She rejected the nice guys n to have kids with these drug addicts, ah beng or bums while sg female alwaus brag abt they r girl boss, wat more mature or what women instinct damn accurate. Now this sg female go pick 2 drug addicts n instead of providing a safe n healthy enviroment for her daughter, she n her new bf torture n killed her daughter. U ppl nv blame her but blame goverment n simon boy? Freaking amazing