how do you respond if you help to pay on behalf of ur grp when eating and one of them say "thank you for the meal!"?

muji4832

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Just take turn to pay. No need count until so gey gao.

If the group you are with are so non-reciprocal then I dun know why are you still mixing with them in the first place.
 

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Just take turn to pay. No need count until so gey gao.

If the group you are with are so non-reciprocal then I dun know why are you still mixing with them in the first place.
no la...they will pay de
if i really say "no prob, my treat!"
they will probably reply "eh? just joking la...later pay u back"

i just wanna see if there is a gd way to counter the tease nia
 

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Can just ignore him next rime, cold shoulder lo.

Some ppl dun realise why they got ignore. For me is simply ignore.
 

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Simple,

I hope everyone have a great meal. Thank you everyone sharing the cost for the food, Eric (the guy who say thanks for the meal) follow me to pay the bill

Always target the person who make the first move, the rest will fall in line
 

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jio the person go siam diu immediately, then make him pay
 

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Shrug it off. It is always a joke in my group. We do take turns to belanjah kopi and teh tho. The driver in the group always drinks for free because the cat needs to drink too.
 

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Just reply each person need to pay back how much then thank them back loh, what so difficult?
 
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some ppl like to make such jokes and some ppl really sneakly want to steal a free meals bec there will be skin thin bill payer just accept it to pay for the group.

personally i find such joke of poor taste. i will never make such jokes and i almost always the first the pay back the bill payer.

i mean just put yourself in the bill payer's shoes...
 

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looks like this tease is quite fatal... nobody has a great way to counter back nicely. sighz :(
 

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Then all the more you shouldn't be the one to offer pay first

Just keep quiet let the other cols pay first and you paynow your share
Correct, if u unwilling to treat, don't offer to pay 1st.
 
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