How to declutter your house?

[duameatball]

Already snap.
I can't stay in such condition anymore.
I feel the stress.

that's why I say the clutter is not the ROOT CAUSE.

Go and FIX your FAMILY PROBLEM.

 

[Lchlch]

Not worth it. It takes too long. I have tried it, maybe sell few items in months. The new items hoarded will clutter the space of any old items you try to sell on carouhell in no time.

Best is still to not buy. Control the buying of your hoarder.

The frustrating thing is, I actually sold a big item and 1 drawer was empty. I felt really good about myself. Next moment, I open the drawer, there is something in it again. It's crazy.

Yes best is please please don't bring in new things into the house.

I already hv phobia seeing rubbish in the house.

I can snap n my anger shoot up very fast!

 

[titusilvering]

Guys, can share what you do that make your house free from rubbish in your house?

I envy people's house that are clean, well kept, airy, clutter free.

I detest home that has mountains of rubbish ...can't even see the four walls of the house due to rubbish.

Throw everything now. Just pay town council bangla

 

[Lchlch]

that's why I say the clutter is not the ROOT CAUSE.

Go and FIX your FAMILY PROBLEM.

It is bro.
I like clean house free of clutter.
But she the opposite.
Dirty lady to the bloody core!

 

[Lchlch]

Throw everything now. Just pay town council bangla

It is not a big items but those small items with plastic bags all over.

 

[drkcynic]

Yes best is please please don't bring in new things into the house.

I already hv phobia seeing rubbish in the house.

I can snap n my anger shoot up very fast!

Yes no new things. I even had to stop my kids. Need to discipline them from young. They are getting the bad habit from their mother. Free things must take alot. I jitao no give face. Free I also forbid them to take. At most take 1 use it and throw.

 

[Lchlch]

IMHO.
Go Toyogo and buy some storage boxes. Separate your things and others things.
After 6 months, throw away others things.
If the thing is necessary, usually will be take out.

My children unwilling to help me.
I am dead end now

 

[duameatball]

It is bro.
I like clean house free of clutter.
But she the opposite.
Dirty lady to the bloody core!

You're not getting it.

The problem here is your FAMILY RELATIONSHIP.
Please seek family counseling.

 

[Thoreldan]

Cluttered house has a very negative energy effect to the breadwinner n children too.
Will hv constant quarrel, anger, cursing etc etc..and life is not smooth n very tough.
Just one family members that love to keep rubbish and you are dead!

Very true. My late father was one such person. Growing up I'm the complete opposite. I like to get rid of clutter.

 

[Lchlch]

Yes no new things. I even had to stop my kids. Need to discipline them from young. They are getting the bad habit from their mother. Free things must take alot. I jitao no give face. Free I also forbid them to take. At most take 1 use it and throw.

Once I went to those rc events.
They gv free recycle bags, free kids games, pens , etc, I jitao told the staff I dont need it, I don't want my house become rubbish chute.

 

[bobo07]

Normally those ppl who like to keep things(or rubbish) are rs sentimental sort...... Those ppl who clean of rubbish are those who take RS lightly.........

 

[Lchlch]

You're not getting it.

The problem here is your FAMILY RELATIONSHIP.
Please seek family counseling.

Even the relationship gets better, the clutter still won't go away.
Cluttering affects family harmony n everything turn into bad luck.

 

[Lchlch]

Normally those ppl who like to keep things(or rubbish) are rs sentimental sort...... Those ppl who clean of rubbish are those who take RS lightly.........

Bro keep a few ok but not everything keep.

 

[duameatball]

Even the relationship gets better, the clutter still won't go away.
Cluttering affects family harmony n everything turn into bad luck.

The reason for clutter is for longing and attachment.
These people have no attachment to people so they attach to physical things.
If you can't even talk to your wife or kids, then the problem is really not the clutter, it is your family relationship.

 

[Lchlch]

I just clear one section of the kitchen , still got many things to throw...I put in the plastic bag.
Only completed 1/10 of the while kitchen area

 

[Lchlch]

The reason for clutter is for longing and attachment.
These people have no attachment to people so they attach to physical things.
If you can't even talk to your wife or kids, then the problem is really not the clutter, it is your family relationship.

If you see from another angle, do you know clutter will cause positive energy to stall inside the house n e erything you do will be very negative?

 

[bobo07]

Bro keep a few ok but not everything keep.

nthing is forever... for me is throw...... no point keep..... one day u die also the "things" u have also wont follow u

 

[Lchlch]

nthing is forever... for me is throw...... no point keep..... one day u die also the "things" u have also wont follow u

Agreed bro.
One day she die, the children also throw away all the rubbish.

 

[bobo07]

Agreed bro.
One day she die, the children also throw away all the rubbish.

in life must learn to let go...................

 

[Lchlch]

in life must learn to let go...................

My mum told me true stories some family issue.
One also like that. Her hubby snap , ask for divorce. Now the hubby live alone, happy ever after.
Another is my cousin, his wife also very nua, don't do hpiwlsework until he fed up, ask for divorce. Now he remarried n living happily with new wife n hv 3 kids too.