I am a failure. Depressed.

[cosmothecat]

TS, come come, join me at Thailand party town, Phuket Patong beach. As you can see from the picture, mostly chio bu (including me) partying here…

 

[Shutterbox]

Talk to you la hor to be specific?

At your service, mam!

 

[Hyruga]

Drink too much alcohol also die early without knowing la

 

[maikichai]

go run a marathon

 

[pmetpmet]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Work hard and wait for things to turn around. Worst thing to do is sit around and chant "crash" like typical EDMWers

 

[cosmothecat]

Work hard and wait for things to turn around. Worst thing to do is sit around and chant "crash" like typical EDMWers

Recession only happens in edmw

mega earthquake only happens in edmw

meanwhile I am partying overseas

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

At your service, mam!

Lai say something make me laugh.

 

[Shutterbox]

Lai say something make me laugh.

蜜蜂叮了乌龟一下
他们从此变成对方的龟蜜

 

[Monstruo^]

But some situations are beyond your control.

Give examples?

Most of the things can be under our control, except life and death. How you think, you can learn to control. Because how you think affects your emotions and then actions. From TS’ posts like we usually see negative stuff and tone nia.

Also, therapist ish just a start. Ownself also need to adjust and find other useful resources out there to complement with the therapy. A few people in the thread mentioned Law of Attraction and The Secret documentary. It is helpful imo, but not all will belief and think much about it.

Most importantly, find out the root of problem. A lot of stuff ish not just seen from the surface. Like not happy at work then quit lor. Been there, done that a few times. But actually there are more to it.

 

[Monstruo^]

thanks for sharing this!

is this called ABC? where can i read more of this? do u have any books on it.

You talking to me ah? Lol because earlier I mentioned this to TS….

 

[Kitaro9202]

Sound like me

Facing some family problem
Leave my ex job due to culture shock and not able to cope well.

Jobless for now and temporary doing delivery service to tong .

Everyday not happy and work everday

Lost interest in everything

Mind is only thinking of earning more money

Mood swing is unpredictable and very easily trigger

 

[xcodes]

Sound like me

Facing some family problem
Leave my ex job due to culture shock and not able to cope well.

Jobless for now and temporary doing delivery service to tong .

Everyday not happy and work everday

Lost interest in everything

Mind is only thinking of earning more money

Mood swing is unpredictable and very easily trigger

I believe that's why the new gen do not want to work for others but to do influencers, content creators ... in this way, they are much happier and take control of their own destiny ...

 

[cosmothecat]

I believe that's why the new gen do not want to work for others but to do influencers, content creators ... in this way, they are much happier and take control of their own destiny ...

Most Gen Z leech on their parents

char siews many many

 

[Mephist0pheLes]

Give examples?

Most of the things can be under our control, except life and death. How you think, you can learn to control. Because how you think affects your emotions and then actions. From TS’ posts like we usually see negative stuff and tone nia.

Also, therapist ish just a start. Ownself also need to adjust and find other useful resources out there to complement with the therapy. A few people in the thread mentioned Law of Attraction and The Secret documentary. It is helpful imo, but not all will belief and think much about it.

Most importantly, find out the root of problem. A lot of stuff ish not just seen from the surface. Like not happy at work then quit lor. Been there, done that a few times. But actually there are more to it.

How to control the weather? Can I control crypto price movement too? Pls teach how to control time as well

 

[cosmothecat]

How to control the weather? Can I control crypto price movement too? Pls teach how to control time as well

To go back or forward in time, just need to bend space-time in the desired position, thereafter step through the vortex

 

[Monstruo^]

Sound like me

Facing some family problem
Leave my ex job due to culture shock and not able to cope well.

Jobless for now and temporary doing delivery service to tong .

Everyday not happy and work everday

Lost interest in everything

Mind is only thinking of earning more money

Mood swing is unpredictable and very easily trigger

Just trust that all these challenges are temporary and are a test, and good things will come soon as long as you do not stop. Drop all the self blame and people blame and just focus on what you wanna achieve next (earning more money).

I am also tackling and managing many issues from various areas, especially on myself and family. If I open a thread to talk about it I think got potential to be many pages or turn into a HK drama.

Despite all these ****, recently I start to be more aware of what goes into my thoughts and my self talks. If I think about bad negative things, naturally I will belief this must be true (which may not be) and then feel negative also and mood swings all come. Then it translates to actions in which I don’t even feel like doing anything anymore or I may do or say things I regret.

 

[Monstruo^]

How to control the weather? Can I control crypto price movement too? Pls teach how to control time as well

All along the discussion is taking about self. Please don’t exaggerate leh lol.

 

[Monstruo^]

If it isn’t terminal illness then it isnt a problem but rather your mentality towards the problem. I know 2 person that are well off and have no illness but chose to end their life. Cherish your life and don’t do silly things.

A lot of people think got money means no worries, sure happy. But that isn’t always the case. Everyone has their own problems. May not be a problem to others but ish a problem to the affected person and vice versa.

I realized our brain can be very strong yet very weak at the same time at the turn of an event. Perspective matters. Mindset matters. Easy to say, hard to grasp. I’m learning too.

 

[qhong61]

TS and some bros here should then consider doing self trading or investment for a living ... no need to face stupid boss or toxic colleagues ...

No risk?

 

[Enola88]

Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.

Take it slow, one small win at a time, rest if you must, but don’t quit.