I am a failure. Depressed.

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Spike

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I don’t dare to say that poor people are happier, because they also have their share of issues.

But wealthy people or those not very wealthy but much better than average one not confirmed happier. Because family dynamics and warmth may be complicated to manage, messy, or not there at all. Like mine. Mybfd.

I told myself… Those I cannot control (situation, people), let it be. Those I still can, ok I try to tweak and improve and at the same time just focus on self. :o
I have known people who are wealthy but still aim to become even wealthier.

For some, it's simply a personal goal — net worth is like a high score to them. Some want to set the highest score, while others strive to beat their own. Others focus on preserving their wealth. And for some, it's about enjoying the attention and prestige that come with money.

It’s similar to how people approach their careers. Some are driven to climb the corporate ladder as high as possible, aiming for the top title or the biggest office. Others are more focused on personal growth — outdoing their past performance or mastering their craft. Some prioritize job security and stability, while others thrive on recognition, influence, or the status that comes with their role..

@Shion you just need to focus on a goal.
 

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@Shion mai depress....got what 心事 say out...

got wat 难题 moi help u shake tortoise shell to ask
 

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If relating my job, I would already throw letter. But this time, I hv to carry on the depression until it completely gone by itself one day in future .

Actually life can be very fragile yet precious.aybe I grew up in a poor and tough environment, feeling depressed feel weak to me. Other than my parents, most people didn't give me much help. So I worked my way to what I am today, I believed 70% on my my own 25% help by my parents and probably only 5% is luck. I have not seen any things I got by luck, not toto, not 4D and not even a lucky promotion opportunity... My ex scolded me that I need to thank ti gong for what I had, including the tiny car I was driving and wanted to put a TI gong altar in our future home should we get married, I cannot accept that and separated from her.

So, I'm here mostly by myself, many unfortunate things happened to me throughout...the only lucky thing maybe, found my current wife that even my mother don't believe I will have a long lasting blissful marriage simply because she is too beautiful... I took a leap of faith thought with some thoughtful consideration. We have kids and life went into another round of twist and turns...

We should throw our kids into the jungle to fend for themselves... If jungle is too much, throw them into a less safe place like Malaysia, Indonesia, China or more scary Europe and America... Let them learn to survive on their own, think will have less depression ... Someone's going to say depression is sickness... Our previous generations never had depression... Oh no, just going to contradict myself, was told my gorgeous cousin sister seemed to have died of depression when her family refusing to tell more....

My point, go out ask that girl next door out, get. Change of your life, you don't know life will be better or worse, looking at ts, he will get worse staying his current course... Not knowing how to dig himself out of the ditches.
 

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Actually life can be very fragile yet precious.aybe I grew up in a poor and tough environment, feeling depressed feel weak to me. Other than my parents, most people didn't give me much help. So I worked my way to what I am today, I believed 70% on my my own 25% help by my parents and probably only 5% is luck. I have not seen any things I got by luck, not toto, not 4D and not even a lucky promotion opportunity... My ex scolded me that I need to thank ti gong for what I had, including the tiny car I was driving and wanted to put a TI gong altar in our future home should we get married, I cannot accept that and separated from her.

So, I'm here mostly by myself, many unfortunate things happened to me throughout...the only lucky thing maybe, found my current wife that even my mother don't believe I will have a long lasting blissful marriage simply because she is too beautiful... I took a leap of faith thought with some thoughtful consideration. We have kids and life went into another round of twist and turns...

We should throw our kids into the jungle to fend for themselves... If jungle is too much, throw them into a less safe place like Malaysia, Indonesia, China or more scary Europe and America... Let them learn to survive on their own, think will have less depression ... Someone's going to say depression is sickness... Our previous generations never had depression... Oh no, just going to contradict myself, was told my gorgeous cousin sister seemed to have died of depression when her family refusing to tell more....

My point, go out ask that girl next door out, get. Change of your life, you don't know life will be better or worse, looking at ts, he will get worse staying his current course... Not knowing how to dig himself out of the ditches.
Bro, hope you stay strong for all the hardship ypu gone thru.
Yes I indulge myself with weekend walks so I can keep away from thinking..n thinking is indeed very painful n depress n sometimes watery eye too especially I walk n see spouse with children...while I dnt hv anymore..n hv this bad thing of thinking future .....make me even more sad.
 

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Bro, hope you stay strong for all the hardship ypu gone thru.
Yes I indulge myself with weekend walks so I can keep away from thinking..n thinking is indeed very painful n depress n sometimes watery eye too especially I walk n see spouse with children...while I dnt hv anymore..n hv this bad thing of thinking future .....make me even more sad.

I remembered your case. Try to walk out of the abyss yourself. I'm sure she would like you to be happy even after she is not around. 🙏
 

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I remembered your case. Try to walk out of the abyss yourself. I'm sure she would like you to be happy even after she is not around. 🙏
Thks bro...
Still very tough after more than 6 months...the missing her is too great.
That's why I indulge in working, doing my hobbies, lest can stop thinking ...
 

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Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.
Moi ish suffering too Bro Shion!!! :(
 

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TS
Everybody in edmw is a failure.

For example.
I failed to strike Toto $10 million in the previous such draw.
 

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Cant get things right.
Cant take back control.
Cant do things properly.
Cant meet the right people.
Cant make things work in my favour.

Lost my sleep.
Lost my mood.
Lost my appetite.

Fall back to my hobbies.
Unable to feel the same.
Lost my interests with my hobbies.

No mood, no heart to do anything.
Just struggle. Then make more mistakes. Then become my fault. Then thrown under the bus. Pay for other people's problems.
Go complete your CPA/CA
 
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