I think the number 1 cause of divorce is selfishness

dontwastetime

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Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.

*yes no one is completely selfless, but if BOTH even have one ounce of it will win 90% of marriages liao
 
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Man builds castle, woman comes. Never the other way.

Birthrates collapsed when women were told to help the men build the castles while the men had their castle-building ability halved.
this. thats why all the woman needs to do is relax & receive thats all. but feminine energy is lost nowadays, women all wanna wear the pants.
 

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Man builds castle, woman comes. Never the other way.

Birthrates collapsed when women were told to help the men build the castles while the men had their castle-building ability halved.
Now women are told they can built castles.
 

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Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.
A selfless person who doesn’t feel reciprocated will eventually turn selfish.. and that doesn’t imply their partner is selfish
 

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Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.
My wife always call me a自私的男人,means our marriage are going to be on the rocks soon
 

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Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.
Population getting smaller. Very small choice to pick from and higher risk of marrying the wrong person because of that.
 

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My wife always call me a自私的男人,means our marriage are going to be on the rocks soon

Unless she's the selfless one

But most (not all) modern marriages are rocky by default

Just be self aware and don't neglect "small complains" because women tend to minimise till cannot take Liao then explode
 
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