I think the number 1 cause of divorce is selfishness

[articland05]

but its only when you're happy & doing well that ppl will wanna join in the fun & be part of yr life

that's true...
nv heard of 2 depressed ppl got married before

 

[Akky85]

Is women watch to much drama.. 霸道仲裁

I gotta to say this series is really bad. It uses the typical korean drama model but adapted to the chinese mindset of rich tall and handsome.

And they are always depicted as self righteous, all powerful while everyone else's IQ is like retarded. The male and female leads are always the most beautiful and handsome while the villains not so much. A really skewered expression of reality.

Worse is the script is always nearly the same, good guy hide his real ID for some reason, then his surrounding ppl all 有眼无珠, then slowly climb up the ladder where even more ppl up the ladder have the same problem. Then finally 皆大欢喜 with the female lead, or sometime a harem of them even.

 

[SpicyBird]

For the same reason I have never seen pandas divorce

because there's only 2 pandas in sg?

 

[Lifetime warranty]

I gotta to say this series is really bad. It uses the typical korean drama model but adapted to the chinese mindset of rich tall and handsome.

And they are always depicted as self righteous, all powerful while everyone else's IQ is like retarded. The male and female leads are always the most beautiful and handsome while the villains not so much. A really skewered expression of reality.

Worse is the script is always nearly the same, good guy hide his real ID for some reason, then his surrounding ppl all 有眼无珠, then slowly climb up the ladder where even more ppl up the ladder have the same problem. Then finally 皆大欢喜 with the female lead, or sometime a harem of them even.

All this idol drama.. make women dream..

I knew alot think husband must fulfill their dream like those drama..

I was in quite a number of relationship.. mostly women mindset the same.. so I think I stay single best.. save money and time..

 

[Lifetime warranty]

总裁

是的老师。。我华文不好啊

 

[Shutterbox]

Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.

is true

I'm the fish between the sel and ness

 

[SpicyBird]

Is women watch to much drama.. 霸道仲裁

maybe they watched too much k-drama or watch too many tiktok videos talking about gender equality (毒鸡汤喝多了)

 

[popdod]

#1
cause is

Too little money.
or
Too much money.

Really.

bo money boh honey.

 

[ots]

The number one cause of divorce is marriage

 

[Canis Lupus]

Population getting smaller. Very small choice to pick from and higher risk of marrying the wrong person because of that.

World population now balloon up to 8 billion liao, the problem is that there is no correct person in everyone's mentality.

 

[Shion]

the number 1 cause of divorce is because ppl unable to be tgt in harmony

 

[fortunecat]

Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.

That's not untrue

 

[Mecisteus]

Funny EDMW singles or BBFA can understand married couples lives ?

 

[freshsoapsmell]

Quite true leh. Just be selfless and giving. Life will be easier.

 

[nonameless]

Beri hard to measure selfless and selfish ... I want my wife like Victoria secret, my wife want me look like K-pop oppa. Expectation for others also sky high, higher than your own boss expect of you ...

 

[EdenHazard]

Selfish people only think of their own enjoyment in the marriage : How much enjoyment can I squeeze outta it.

Selfless person will think : how can I make the other happy?

If both are selfless, marriage will be so touching and happy for life.

So far only selfless person i can think of is Jesus Christ

 

[harky]

this. thats why all the woman needs to do is relax & receive thats all. but feminine energy is lost nowadays, women all wanna wear the pants.

but man also need to relax & receive la.

it both party

 

[chocobelle]

if the s3x sucks, the marriage won't last too coz 1 of them will tao jiak sooner or later

 

[Kaylin]

but man also need to relax & receive la.

it both party

men are wired to protect & provide

 

[glarerder]

Think from another angle...if they're not selfish, they won't get married.. people get married so that they can have exclusive relationship with each other. People who are in open relationship are the selfless ones