I wanna confess something...

enimen

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I am very sad.

Just now gotten a lecture from a "boss" on 'why so slow!???? I want everything asap', who dont even understand my department of work.

Anw what can I do right.

MC 2 days last week also don't dare not to work cos my department only myself, hence working as usual throughout.

Still not all recovered and still need work until like dog. Even wfh work also cannot finish. Nvm.

So I just continue to deliver and sent an explaination why that task is cannot tackle by speed only as a wrong move can cause very detrimental impact.

He saw my work and my explaination.

End up he praised me.

But am I happier?

Imagine working like dog for a year only to be blamed for every single thing.

He only praised this cos I really see how my risk management truly makes sense. But there are still many other things always taken for granted.

I dont need praises, even no increment or bonus also doesn't matter anymore as I am resigning to fate, but getting unappreciated and doubt on every opportunity!??

Sure I am only a human afterall.
The more u get scolded for things u do wrong, the more u develop the habit of not replying , or responding at all. Because everything u say might end up tio scolded.

Who want to work in a minefield?
 

Spike

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Wu hua boh ah seriously


I do so much for this hopeless useless company 0% to 70%.

If I quit hor like benefit the next worker sia.
I think you need to consider the fact that without the platform the company provided, could you have achieved the same?

Assuming you can do without the company's platform, wouldn't it make sense to start your own firm?
 

cosmothecat

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TS, everything you described is normal

Me also going through such things at work and thinking of quitting my job

Mental health suffering
 

kan-kon

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Song Bro

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Usually is like that.
So I usually do things in advance.
How advanced? The time you see an arrow being lifted,
I already rise up my shield liao, when arrow fly towards me, lift arm nia.
Block arrow liao, I dun feel anything. Gain or no gain exp means nothing to me.
Do things that long term benefit u.

Last time I always try to think from companies perspective.
Always not appreciated. So I scale it down just to benefit myself.
The first time I succeed I pat myself in the back liao.
It is the best appreciation I get. Not need to seek other's approval.
They dun reciprocate, they dun get to know how I did it. Simple.
 

Loratadine10mg

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I am very sad.

Just now gotten a lecture from a "boss" on 'why so slow!???? I want everything asap', who dont even understand my department of work.

Anw what can I do right.

MC 2 days last week also don't dare not to work cos my department only myself, hence working as usual throughout.

Still not all recovered and still need work until like dog. Even wfh work also cannot finish. Nvm.

So I just continue to deliver and sent an explaination why that task is cannot tackle by speed only as a wrong move can cause very detrimental impact.

He saw my work and my explaination.

End up he praised me.

But am I happier?

Imagine working like dog for a year only to be blamed for every single thing.

He only praised this cos I really see how my risk management truly makes sense. But there are still many other things always taken for granted.

I dont need praises, even no increment or bonus also doesn't matter anymore as I am resigning to fate, but getting unappreciated and doubt on every opportunity!??

Sure I am only a human afterall.
Quit your job but find one new one first
 

Milodrink

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A good worker is no take MC one

Me whole year 0 MC, every year of my working life


I also wont take mc if no need. Ald no voice and keep coughing.

But it's spread among the team because we love going to office, eat tgt etc.

To boss is human sick is nth.
 

rider83

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I am very sad.

Just now gotten a lecture from a "boss" on 'why so slow!???? I want everything asap', who dont even understand my department of work.

Anw what can I do right.

MC 2 days last week also don't dare not to work cos my department only myself, hence working as usual throughout.

Still not all recovered and still need work until like dog. Even wfh work also cannot finish. Nvm.

So I just continue to deliver and sent an explaination why that task is cannot tackle by speed only as a wrong move can cause very detrimental impact.

He saw my work and my explaination.

End up he praised me.

But am I happier?

Imagine working like dog for a year only to be blamed for every single thing.

He only praised this cos I really see how my risk management truly makes sense. But there are still many other things always taken for granted.

I dont need praises, even no increment or bonus also doesn't matter anymore as I am resigning to fate, but getting unappreciated and doubt on every opportunity!??

Sure I am only a human afterall.

When boss says u slow, u say u use AI. Already very fast le.

When boss says u have done good work, u say u had to supervise the AI to give you good output.

Now you know why we have AI
 

Lchlch

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I am very sad.

Just now gotten a lecture from a "boss" on 'why so slow!???? I want everything asap', who dont even understand my department of work.

Anw what can I do right.

MC 2 days last week also don't dare not to work cos my department only myself, hence working as usual throughout.

Still not all recovered and still need work until like dog. Even wfh work also cannot finish. Nvm.

So I just continue to deliver and sent an explaination why that task is cannot tackle by speed only as a wrong move can cause very detrimental impact.

He saw my work and my explaination.

End up he praised me.

But am I happier?

Imagine working like dog for a year only to be blamed for every single thing.

He only praised this cos I really see how my risk management truly makes sense. But there are still many other things always taken for granted.

I dont need praises, even no increment or bonus also doesn't matter anymore as I am resigning to fate, but getting unappreciated and doubt on every opportunity!??

Sure I am only a human afterall.
Bro, endure .
It's just a work salary relationship.
Nvr put 100% on to your work.
Family time more important.
Now, I also fook card whatever coy or department colleagues do.

You know what?
I tell you something.
This is super toxic.

My team mate a lead told me his partner by addressing him a lead.
I am aware he tried to Dan n bait me from jealousy, anger n thus conflict with him.
Too bad, I seem thru n I really fook care as such whatever title he gv him is fooking none of my business
 

batuchka

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i dun usually give workplace advice on the internet but perhaps you could chill and add a generous amount of vodka/gin to your milodrink?
 
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