peaceheart
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I give $100 regardless of the location
Actually the ultimate consideration for ang bao and pek kim should be the same. ie. To help.A wedding banquet is a joyous occasion where and when the bride and groom celebrate their marital union which as we may rightfully believe *follows* their sexual union.
As such, they decided to invite anything which moves, be it an old JC friend, an army friend, or the bride's colleague who just joined the company she works at, last week.
But never mind. It is a joyous event, and you just go and jiak ahhhh! If there is beer, DRINK to your heart's content!
The ang pow is symbolic. It is in red paper which symbolises luck. Good luck, I mean. Not bad luck. The groom needs it because without good luck, he will become another Women's Charter statistic.
It does not really matter how much you put inside. Even $2 is fine because it is not the amount of money but the colour of the ang pow paper which matters. If you give too much, then you are not invited; rather, you BOUGHT a seat to eat.
However, if you are giving white gold (pek kim), then the amount you donate is according to your means. The whole idea is to help the bereaved family, a practice which has its origin at a time when we were very poor.
In the case of marriages, there is not need to give ang pow like you are giving pek kim.
Accepted long ago liao. How to prata? Even if say COVID they still expect to paynow even if never attend?
cannot. if not later your name big big on the stage screen to ask you to top upgive what you want..
not what is market rate.
your ang pow no have cover GST and liquor chargesActually the ultimate consideration for ang bao and pek kim should be the same. ie. To help.
Imho there's no basis to assume wedding couples are all rich and bereaved families are all poor.
I will minimally try to help the wedding couple break even on their wedding dinner. eg. If a table banquet for 10 at that hotel typically charges around $1.5k, then my ang bao will be minimally $150 for 1 pax or $300 for 2 pax. Any extra will depend on my relationship with the wedding couple.
Say you no pak zham settle
Then go jiak buffet yourself rah
Usually gst ish within the price i suppose. Liquor wise most tiams the restaurants will allow wedding banquets to supply their own liquor without corkage charge. But if both are not inclusive, then chiu are right that i neber account for them.your ang pow no have cover GST and liquor charges![]()