marrying a malaysian girl?

Mr BBFA

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u lucky. well i shd not use the word date, shd be coined as 1st meet up. 1 suddenly run road despite meeting is ok leh, i treat her as friend.

2nd one knn, i see the face a bit chao lao and i want to run road, but nvm la since there just eat. kns i ask if bday is on say 24 apr (we had this convo before in chat). she replied nope its not apr. i guess mar also wrong. in the end, she say feb and said i am very bad as i nv remb her bday month. i was like wtf nia not even my gf remb for wad.

she kept quiet when i paid the bill but i bth when i departing from her at mrt. she say ok to split. in the end when i send the amt and bill to msg her, she just replied LOL and said its ok she will treat another time and then disappeared because her tele status became last seen long time ago. so chao kuan.

Where did you meet them? Tbh run road after first date quite common if using dating apps, applicable to both guys and girls :s22:

Curious about the second one, you asked her whether she ok to split or she just told you she ok to split?

Generally for me 1st meet up i will treat, subsequent dates if no initiative i run road liao :s13:

Oh which reminds me, i dated one more jhb for a short period of time a few years back when i was quite active on tinder, think she is PR ah. Knn for most of the dates i pay, i still remember there was once when we were about to finish eating she go order some food to dabao LOL. The bill come pretend to use phone i straight pay liao. After that i never really message or meet up with her, she ask me why dont want to meet i said no money LOL. She offered to treat me i just declined and it died off from there.

The latest one met up quite a few times, first meet up go eat and lim jiu i pay for everything but the following day she paynow me half the expenses :s13:

Subsequent meetups also, i pay for food she pay for movies etc lor no issue for me. This one quite pretty and petite i must say, easily 8 - 9 for my standard, maybe EDMW standard a 7 :s13:

But along the way somehow i can feel slowly dying off, the thing about me is i rather be the one to leave first rather than getting ghosted / left alone. Anyw on dating apps i believe most people are talking to multiple people at once. Best to keep your options open in case such things happen like this. End of the day both also got piak piak, so no lugi la :s13:

I still prefer sinke bu, most of my exes are sinkies so yeah :o
 

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Where did you meet them? Tbh run road after first date quite common if using dating apps, applicable to both guys and girls :s22:

Curious about the second one, you asked her whether she ok to split or she just told you she ok to split?

Generally for me 1st meet up i will treat, subsequent dates if no initiative i run road liao :s13:

Oh which reminds me, i dated one more jhb for a short period of time a few years back when i was quite active on tinder, think she is PR ah. Knn for most of the dates i pay, i still remember there was once when we were about to finish eating she go order some food to dabao LOL. The bill come pretend to use phone i straight pay liao. After that i never really message or meet up with her, she ask me why dont want to meet i said no money LOL. She offered to treat me i just declined and it died off from there.

The latest one met up quite a few times, first meet up go eat and lim jiu i pay for everything but the following day she paynow me half the expenses :s13:

Subsequent meetups also, i pay for food she pay for movies etc lor no issue for me. This one quite pretty and petite i must say, easily 8 - 9 for my standard, maybe EDMW standard a 7 :s13:

But along the way somehow i can feel slowly dying off, the thing about me is i rather be the one to leave first rather than getting ghosted / left alone. Anyw on dating apps i believe most people are talking to multiple people at once. Best to keep your options open in case such things happen like this. End of the day both also got piak piak, so no lugi la :s13:

I still prefer sinke bu, most of my exes are sinkies so yeah :o
i know its normal to run road from cmb. i also run road. but i was curious abt 1st one cos we nv talk romantically. oh well whatever. met another msian bu and 2 sinkie matches on cmb thereafter.

2nd one i asked her if she ok and she was ok with split.i also generally pay first and see if the girl offer to split. most sinkies will offer or make up for it via desserts after meal.

good la got piak. i nv move pass 3rd date. i naturally prefer sinkie cos can relate better to childhold and pre working days and yes speak english mostly (even though mandarin is ok with me but just a preference, even though my mum msian too)
 

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i know its normal to run road from cmb. i also run road. but i was curious abt 1st one cos we nv talk romantically. oh well whatever. met another msian bu and 2 sinkie matches on cmb thereafter.

2nd one i asked her if she ok and she was ok with split.i also generally pay first and see if the girl offer to split. most sinkies will offer or make up for it via desserts after meal.

good la got piak. i nv move pass 3rd date. i naturally prefer sinkie cos can relate better to childhold and pre working days and yes speak english mostly (even though mandarin is ok with me but just a preference, even though my mum msian too)

yep like what the others above said too, jhb good for the experience but marriage i most likely wont consider. The latest one family seems quite well to do, but yah even though she speaks not bad english i just feel there is some sort of barrier.

not prepared to get involved with the whole kampung too :s13:
 

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No problem with me.

I find Malaysian girls more simple, less materialistic, more caring for the family, and generally prettier.
 

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malaysian girls and indo chinese girls good. better than vn, th.
culture much closer to us and most are submissive, know their place. largely due to them growing up as a minority in their countries.
 

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Dated 1 kl bu. Study Malay school can’t speak Chinese. So boh Malaysia gou Li accent. Very independent. Secks was also not bad
 

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will u marry a malaysian PR girl?

what are the pros and cons?
yes i will, the one i know is down to earth and practical and is true to the heart

pretty, loving, and kind hearted, and not pretentious.

this got to do with the soil of malaysia, those in singapore, cannt get it one.
 

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the two i had sexperience wib both beri horny. even i buay tong :s13:

they are more experienced than most sinkie guys

they left home and live alone for studies or work at a very young age

often cohabit with bf(s) and they fook like rabbits day and night
 
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