Exactly right !
1. Since I've done several professions, I took the opportunity to obtain a small sample. It is enough that approximately 50 percent hate their jobs. But because these jobs are "highly" desired e.g. a doctor, lawyer or an investment banker, management consultants.. they lan lan stayed on it with a common typical sigh "I can't do anything else". Many thought of of an ivy league MBA, and I've always tried to hint to them, don't jump from one cesspit to another.
2. There are enough doctors, lawyers, investment bankers I know who quit their jobs to become yoga instructors, bakers/cooks, hawker (one was good at it and even enjoyed it, but could not adapt to the "shame of being one"-he actually preferred his friends not visit him-, hence returned to his high powered job"). Some remained unemployed for years. One thing in common however, they either come from rich families or just already rich from work.
3. It appears the most satisfied fellas are usually business owners-as long the biz does well. This is one such area that I'm thinking of seriously. 100k put aside, to meet a prediction by a famous deceased astrologer who prewarned me many years back to never to work for others, you will fail he said.
Lets see whether this hocus pocus prescient being is right or very wrong. You will definitely hear from me when things do go well.
4. Mean while I believe in the idea of keep trying out new professions. A long while back, I used to criticize golf as a fun sport, laughing at those who do, what a bore I thought until I tried it and got hooked. What appears to be bad to you may not be, vice versa.
5. To pass the time, I have taken up classical guitar and should be a maestro in 10-15 years time-there a you tube sensation, also aim is to busk in orchard while also singing (another love for it), a retirement plan.
6. Might start a blog after I'm done with this tech lessons. Now I know why these FIRE individuals like setting up blogs, it is just fun as long as its not a job.
7. Might take up grad certs in computing with NUS once I affirm I like computing, and have obtained employment in the industry to see how the going is. Looks like life will start to be very busy soon.
8. I guess an "identity" is very important to any man. I know an individual who lost his job, and lost 10 kg within a month, going mad. He was not even financially poor with skills highly desired, and also has a wife who makes good money. His wife lamented and confused over why. I think now I know clearly why.
I guess its the shame of not being a provider. I have almost forgotten the satisfaction of being a provider and being proud of myself. When you meet up people and you can proudly tell them u are this or that, rather than I'm unemployed or retired. You get tired really quickly.
Conversations do not get as interesting as it used to-maybe I've run out of stories since life now is all about being cooped up at home and kids and spending way too much time on hwz shiny part 3.
9. Oddly, the wife doesn't suffer any of these ailments, and happily enjoys watching korean dramas along with her obsession of buying stuff online.....
but I do know a former female client, who gave up a high paying strangely no stress job to start at the bottom because she wanted a challenge-a big one-but again, she is already rich. I guess we can't always generalise.
That is a bit of an utopia. For 90% of the population, this is a not choice to do what you like. Lots of stars need to be aligned for you to find your passion, be good at it, then get paid for it also.
Even the most successful and ambitious people, who seem to be really liking what they do, often dont. It is just that they are addicted to the rat race and want to reach the top. For that they willing to pay with their blood and soul.
But that is what life is all about. There is no easy way out. If you look at animals, a lion has to go out and hunt and find food for its survival. Would it be happy to stay in a zoo and be fed well and dont have to do anything? I dont think that is that is the purpose of the lion's life. Its purpose is to go and hunt and find food, even if it is a struggle.