sorry bros, i am confused here...
there are 2 schools of thought...
one sch is some of you here who ask me to bring her the store, see what diamonds she like, test ring size etc, then propose to her at another day.
the other sch is some of my frens, they just whack the ring. nv consider what the gal likes, wat size is her finger etc. Wat they tell me is that:
1) Gives element of surprise during proposal
2) Ring can be resize for free if cannot fit (is this true?)
3) Costs hidden. e.g. my fren bought a 3k+ ring. If u shop ard with a gal, u may feel stressed if lets say u negotiate with the saleman, got cheaper version? This one too expensive. E.g. the salesman show u a 5k diamond, then u may say diplomatically, oh not wat i want... the gal will know she is worth less than 5k? stressful to shop with her isn't it?
n ya I agree with someone who posted here that most gals care only abt the carat n brand. they wun discuss things with their galfrens like how is the cutting? VS what? they will just ask what carat and wat brand?
I am more inclined with the second sch to shop secretly. I am not rich and just aiming for a cheap brand + big carat. I dun care much abt the cutting etc.
dun know la... just my initial thoughts... pros, pls correct me.
pcw +1