Separation and Divorce

Philipkee

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I think u lying bro
Who the held still see wedding photos
Presse ley
U might as well say u bring out the dusty dvd and rewatch yr own wedding again

Piang eh... see wedding photos
Dun joke la
I don’t think he is lying if he still loves the wife. It’s easy to say let go just like that but in reality it’s not so easy. He probably wants to just look at the photos and remember he was once happy

Of cos if years later or after he remarries he keep looking at them and feel pain it’s another story
 

Holytyphoon

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I am in the midst of divorce. Not much friends, the loneliness when I returned home looking at our wedding photos is so pain. How to over come and move on?
I been thru this 2y ago.
U really really must have frens, start making if none. If not the slide down is endless.
 

Lolile

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I hv lost my wife recently
I am mmore painful than you but I pushes on despite bring heart broken for months n still healing it.
So, bro, dnt gv up.
Stay strong
Try reconcile if possible even 1% of chances.
Can’t really say your pain is higher than his or vice versa - really depends on individual
For his case, it’s the hurt of being betrayed, cheated (if really kena green beret etc)
Each situation will hv it’s own pain, sadness etc

for me, I think the hurt of being betrayed is more difficult as whatever good memories have been brutally destroyed

I feel that losing a spouse due to death is less painful. It is ofc devastating and definitely very sad but at least you still hv sweet memories.
 

Roundtreex

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I am in the midst of divorce. Not much friends, the loneliness when I returned home looking at our wedding photos is so pain. How to over come and move on?
Stop complaining you have chosen the wife you wanted
 

noobiee

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I am in the midst of divorce. Not much friends, the loneliness when I returned home looking at our wedding photos is so pain. How to over come and move on?
thank you for sharing..

wish you all the best
 

RichardXyn

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Loneliness is not a problem. You can go to the coffee shop and join the many lonely people there. You won't feel lonely anymore because you realise that you are not alone.
 

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Don't give up in your life. Try to do something positively you like. If can go out to do socialized activities like outdoor hobbies would be good.
 
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Can’t really say your pain is higher than his or vice versa - really depends on individual
For his case, it’s the hurt of being betrayed, cheated (if really kena green beret etc)
Each situation will hv it’s own pain, sadness etc

for me, I think the hurt of being betrayed is more difficult as whatever good memories have been brutally destroyed

I feel that losing a spouse due to death is less painful. It is ofc devastating and definitely very sad but at least you still hv sweet memories.
Can’t really say your pain is higher than his or vice versa - really depends on individual
For his case, it’s the hurt of being betrayed, cheated (if really kena green beret etc)
Each situation will hv it’s own pain, sadness etc

for me, I think the hurt of being betrayed is more difficult as whatever good memories have been brutally destroyed

I feel that losing a spouse due to death is less painful. It is ofc devastating and definitely very sad but at least you still hv sweet memories.
bro, saying is easy.
it is not the same if you really in my shoe.
 

Teyemittisi

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I think u lying bro
Who the held still see wedding photos
Presse ley
U might as well say u bring out the dusty dvd and rewatch yr own wedding again

Piang eh... see wedding photos
Dun joke la
Maybe he look at old wedding photo to remind himself “Heng aaaa sibe Heng… finally escape from one **** hole..”
 

Teyemittisi

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TS, you should start doing self-improvement right away. Lose weight, go gym, go run, go swim, learn manly hobbies like MMA, bouldering, etc - this will build up your confidence. Then go watch lots of redpill male improvement videos like Andrew Tate, Joe Rogan, Chris Williamson, etc. Then start to learn how to get back into the dating scene, dress well, put perfume, walk with chin up, learn how to talk behave in front of women, etc. Modern women now are very very different from previous years due to social media. So need to level up many stages compared to yesteryears.

Your best revenge is to find another younger slimmer prettier bustier girlfriend than your ex-wife. #makemengreatagain
Rubbish advice.. the most manly attraction is the size of paycheque and bank account..
 
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