Serious Relationship issue

[Acetone]

Where is TS?

Abandon thread liao… cos now busy with divorce.

 

[TiedInsurer]

Hahaha you think guys can’t go drinking because their wives will cut off their balks. Still say you’re not weak?

Nope. Just sensitive to the needs of my wife. If that's considered weak to you, then good for you. You very alpha only need to care about your own needs.

 

[boyinhersense]

Nope. Just sensitive to the needs of my wife. If that's considered weak to you, then good for you. You very alpha only need to care about your own needs.

Lol. Sure. You are SSOOOO sensitive. I already said I can manage the kids without her and vice versa.

NOT alpha, just don’t have your feudal thinking that women cannot manage without men.

We both have our nights out like I posted earlier.

The missus goes clubbing with her friends at least once a month. Used to pick her up. Now I just koon at home

 

[TiedInsurer]

Lol. Sure. You are SSOOOO sensitive. I already said I can manage the kids without her and vice versa.

NOT alpha, just don’t have your feudal thinking that women cannot manage without men.

We both have our nights out like I posted earlier.

It's not considered feudal thinking if it's what the wife requests. If your wife is stronger then good for you lor. Not everyone's wife can take it.

 

[boyinhersense]

It's not considered feudal thinking if it's what the wife requests. If your wife is stronger then good for you lor. Not everyone's wife can take it.

Got it. Your wife “requests” you not to go drinking……must be quite an emphatic request that’s why you said guys that go drinking should be scared of having their balls cut off by their wives.

Anyway enough is enough. I didn’t start this but I’ll end it. Good night and good day.

 

[TiedInsurer]

Got it. Your wife “requests” you not to go drinking……must be quite an emphatic request that’s why you said guys that go drinking should be scared of having their balls cut off by their wives.

Anyway enough is enough. I didn’t start this but I’ll end it. Good night and good day.

It's a pretty common request actually. I'm pretty surprised yours actually happy to allow you to go late night drinking while you have multiple kids none of which are even old enough to be in kindergarten. Usually it's only done when kids grow up some more and don't require that much care.

But yea have a good night.

 

[harky]

Nope. Just sensitive to the needs of my wife. If that's considered weak to you, then good for you. You very alpha only need to care about your own needs.

haha if there is a another person sometime will had to considerate think for them but i guess not everyone will do like this de

 

[yperic]

All of this started after she joined a new company.

Sound like she got a new guy in her life liao just hope she never let you wear green hat.

 

[eflash]

It's a pretty common request actually. I'm pretty surprised yours actually happy to allow you to go late night drinking while you have multiple kids none of which are even old enough to be in kindergarten. Usually it's only done when kids grow up some more and don't require that much care.

But yea have a good night.

Common?
I feel like if you marry a guy who likes to drink... Don't expect him to change just because of marriage... Or having kids

If I don't like my guy going for late night drinking etc... I don't marry that kind of guy so I don't even have to make such "requests".

 

[TiedInsurer]

Common?
I feel like if you marry a guy who likes to drink... Don't expect him to change just because of marriage... Or having kids

If I don't like my guy going for late night drinking etc... I don't marry that kind of guy so I don't even have to make such "requests".

I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding here. It's not about the guy going for late night drinking. It's about the guy leaving all the responsibilities to his wife, and going out to have fun. If he was gaming at home instead of helping, it would be a problem too.

He doesn't need to change. He just needs to know when responsibilities have to take precedence. Kids grow up eventually. The club isn't going to run away.

 

[Matthew K L O]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

Sounds like she is still married wants to have fun clubbing. Inappropriate behavior. Suggest you get a professional mediator; problem is she might not agreed to one.

 

[crunsik]

Ts. She might have another rs out of marriage. U can accept?

 

[Lafiel]

confrim got another guy

 

[0nePunchm@n]

her office guy is singing this to the wife..

 

[eflash]

I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding here. It's not about the guy going for late night drinking. It's about the guy leaving all the responsibilities to his wife, and going out to have fun. If he was gaming at home instead of helping, it would be a problem too.

He doesn't need to change. He just needs to know when responsibilities have to take precedence. Kids grow up eventually. The club isn't going to run away.

I think help can help... But both parties should still be able to enjoy personal time away from kids... So take turns taking care of kids

 

[mikhail_k]

Actually I'm curious how would other coworkers feel if like this new girl just joined the company and we all know is that she is married after that she gets really close to one of the guys in new company and later divorce her husband and get together with this guy? Encourage her to divorce or feel disgusted by her act or both of them? Honestly if this happens in my office, I will keep remind the guy don't anyhow especially she is married. Need to respect her husband and don't send the wrong signal. Even if you really like her let them break up liao then u chase. Not chase and make them break up. That's not a moral thing to do and not something to be proud of in front of your own family and relatives when they learnt about it.

i used to work in stat board and mnc, i realize got alot of girls their pattern is really want guy to spend alot of time with them. all the ones i see cheat are those with a colleague who 24-7 entertaining her one

 

[champion09]

I have been married to my wife for six years, and we have kids. Recently, we had a quarrel, and she suggested a separation. Her stance on this seems very firm. According to her, the argument stemmed from what she sees as me being overly controlling—for example, not allowing her to go out with friends to pubs late at night. She finds my behaviour unreasonable and controlling.

This isn’t the first time we’ve had a quarrel, and usually, we manage to resolve our differences by the next day. However, this time, she has been ignoring me for about two weeks and has been sleeping in another room. She also goes out until late at night, saying she has work. All of this started after she joined a new company.

I do not wish to divorce her, as I still love her. However, I don’t know how to resolve the issue now. Should I try to convince her to come back to me, or should I give her the space to live the lifestyle she wants?

7 years of itch. You can prep by hiring PI.

 

[SkyNinja]

Some lun for 20 years

 

[PiKa]

Some lun for 20 years

Ninja from the sky bump this thread from may..

Ish everything okay?

 

[toolbox03]

i used to work in stat board and mnc, i realize got alot of girls their pattern is really want guy to spend alot of time with them. all the ones i see cheat are those with a colleague who 24-7 entertaining her one

When chiu see your collick more than your partner, feelings will develop esp if both are attractive