Seriously everything need money, life is hard 🙃

[cyke69sg]

I never say lucky is wrong. But I think is disgusting to not realise one succeed is due to luck and keep blow trumpet about how hard they work.

That is you see and think is luck that made someone else succeed. YOU.

Is that the whole story? I can tell you if you get to know more of these people and hear and know the real story, more often than not the "luck" is just getting the opportunity. But they still have to be good and work hard to build on that door opening for them. It is not all smooth sailing and drop on the lap kind of thing.

You are too judgmental. I take it back. I don't think you can be a good therapist.

you got strong cluster B traits.

 

[chiefoggy]

Wow already 28 pages of discussion about my behkan life.

chiu ish big red person

 

[cyke69sg]

All these need qualifications or connections which TS dun have. If she have them in the first place, she wouldn't be ranting here so often.

The easiest way for girls to get ahead is to leverage on social media and milk those simps. Those average looking cosplayer also got hundreds of simp fans who are willing to pay money just to have 1 min of silly interaction with her.

Once you have a base of simps to support you, income is auto rolling in.

I think TS personality will say "eew, how disgusting for me to milk simps!"

It is beneath her to do such things.

For TS must be proper job, work hard, honest, no lying, no cheating, no favoritism, no sweet talk, no nonsense. Straightforward do what TS is asked do it well do a lot and make TONS of money doing it.

Unfortunately in SG blue collar work is not well rewarded.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

That is you see and think is luck that made someone else succeed. YOU.

Is that the whole story? I can tell you if you get to know more of these people and hear and know the real story, more often than not the "luck" is just getting the opportunity. But they still have to be good and work hard to build on that door opening for them. It is not all smooth sailing and drop on the lap kind of thing.

You are too judgmental. I take it back. I don't think you can be a good therapist.

you got strong cluster B traits.

I think you then too judgemental to keep forcing your point on me and want me to agree with you.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

I think TS personality will say "eew, how disgusting for me to milk simps!"

It is beneath her to do such things.

For TS must be proper job, work hard, honest, no lying, no cheating, no favoritism, no sweet talk, no nonsense. Straightforward do what TS is asked do it well do a lot and make TONS of money doing it.

Unfortunately in SG blue collar work is not well rewarded.

I don't think is disgusting to milk simp but I just dk how to. I think you have an issue with being realistic. I am just calling a spade a spade.

 

[N4E.SI]

Ownself ASK just admit la. Without rich parent where got chance have investment portfolio.

Ya I never deny I got parents help. At least I not like those pretty insurance agents who become rich through flaunting cleavage & behaving slutty with clients, but act like their success is through their "hard work" "strong personality"

 

[cyke69sg]

Is ok you don't believe in luck I do. You can try very hard not your time or suay means nothing will be right. I get what you mean but you don't understand without context.

Luck is very important! I do believe in luck!

What I was saying is that luck alone won't cut it.

You see you move to the extreme now. SUAY is the entire opposite spectrum now.

If SUAY really you are right cannot.

People tiok cancer when they are doing well young in successful career. Stage IV cancer.

Or accident paralzyed paraplegic.

You are correct but you see how swinging from extremes in your conversation means there will be a lot of difficulty coming to common ground and moving forward?

You extend your agenda by doing binary extremes.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

Ya I never deny I got parents help. At least I not like those pretty insurance agents who become rich through flaunting cleavage & behaving slutty with clients, but act like their success is through their "hard work" "strong personality"

I agree.

 

[cyke69sg]

I think you then too judgemental to keep forcing your point on me and want me to agree with you.

You will NEVER agree with me. I know that.
I deal with many BPD Cluster B types. Need to be in control. Cannot let go.
They need to shake up their construct and think differently. very hard to do.
This is where Psychedelic Assisted Therapy can help with turning off the Default Mode Network.

Do you have any history of trauma? Childhood? Assault? PTSD?

Often times people with trauma also get mislabelled with Borderline Personality Disorder.

 

[cyke69sg]

Ya I never deny I got parents help. At least I not like those pretty insurance agents who become rich through flaunting cleavage & behaving slutty with clients, but act like their success is through their "hard work" "strong personality"

whatever it takes man. Whatever one is willing to do and is comfortable with doing.

Some people make a living out of ending people's lives.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

Luck is very important! I do believe in luck!

What I was saying is that luck alone won't cut it.

You see you move to the extreme now. SUAY is the entire opposite spectrum now.

If SUAY really you are right cannot.

People tiok cancer when they are doing well young in successful career. Stage IV cancer.

Or accident paralzyed paraplegic.

You are correct but you see how swinging from extremes in your conversation means there will be a lot of difficulty coming to common ground and moving forward?

You extend your agenda by doing binary extremes.

Right now is not like I'm not doing anything to improve and in fact I already do everything I can but suay. So what's wrong with ranting and being upset? But you will say oh is my mindset again and blah blah blah. Ok you right is my mind spoilt I deserve all this. The end. Is 1am don't need keep force your points on me. Since is about mindset and right choice you should stop wasting time on losers like me and read threads that are positive and not extreme bias.

 

[N4E.SI]

See another "luck" post from you. "without rich parent".......

Actually I read many many of TS rant threads aldy. She didn't provide exact details of her struggles, but I think 1 of her main grouse is always she has no rich parents. She seems envious of those born in rich family and have the support of rich parents to achieve things in life.

 

[worldmap777]

Do you have support? I kinda understand how you feel.

unfortunately nope. feels like we are souls stuck in a prison planet.

 

[cyke69sg]

Right now is not like I'm not doing anything to improve and in fact I already do everything I can but suay. So what's wrong with ranting and being upset? But you will say oh is my mindset again and blah blah blah. Ok you right is my mind spoilt I deserve all this. The end. Is 1am don't need keep force your points on me. Since is about mindset and right choice you should stop wasting time on losers like me and read threads that are positive and not extreme bias.

I am sorry. I didn't realize you are in pain.
Apologies. I am willing to listen to you with no reflective judgements going forward.
Sorry I did not know this before.

 

[cyke69sg]

Actually I read many many of TS rant threads aldy. She didn't provide exact details of her struggles, but I think 1 of her main grouse is always she has no rich parents. She seems envious of those born in rich family and have the support of rich parents to achieve things in life.

thanks for sharing. I am not familiar with TS

 

[Redcapiscum]

I never say lucky is wrong. But I think is disgusting to not realise one succeed is due to luck and keep blow trumpet about how hard they work.

I can tell you if you get to know more of these people and hear and know the real story, more often than not the "luck" is just getting the opportunity. But they still have to be good and work hard to build on that door opening for them. It is not all smooth sailing and drop on the lap kind of thing.

To me the most disgusting is those got the luck but they are horrible and mean people. I personally think it is quite unfair.
If those kind, hardworking one got lucky, i will be happy for them

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

You will NEVER agree with me. I know that.
I deal with many BPD Cluster B types. Need to be in control. Cannot let go.
They need to shake up their construct and think differently. very hard to do.
This is where Psychedelic Assisted Therapy can help with turning off the Default Mode Network.

Do you have any history of trauma? Childhood? Assault? PTSD?

Often times people with trauma also get mislabelled with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Omg I have so many threads about my life and even in this thread I shared my tumultuous childhood and entire life up to now, you didn't read yet you are here acting like a psychiatrist jumping into conclusion? I was still thinking wow recently my thread is helpful no siaolang and you prove me wrong.

 

[Redcapiscum]

I am sorry. I didn't realize you are in pain.
Apologies. I am willing to listen to you with no reflective judgements going forward.
Sorry I did not know this before.

In life, a person can use different solutions to solve the issue but still have the issue. Life is not always smooth sailing. As much as we want to think it is easy, it is not easy.

 

[cyke69sg]

To me the most disgusting is those got the luck but they are horrible and mean people. I personally think it is quite unfair.
If those kind, hardworking one got lucky, i will be happy for them

Personally, I have accepted the world is unfair.

If it was fair there will be other problems where people will start saying it is also unfair. Eg in communist system the hardworking will say why work hard?

So it is IMPOSSIBLE for the world to be fair for everyone.

Even in nature. The herbivores will say why is it the carnivores have strength speed big fangs to kill us?

Trees and plants say why I cannot move and run?

I just do what I can to try to achieve my goals. I also have accepted I will never reach my goals.

Perhaps the journey is what its about. And the NOW.

Right now I am not suffering. I am not hungry. I am not thirsty. It;s just my thoughts. Control my thoughts.

 

[N4E.SI]

I never say lucky is wrong. But I think is disgusting to not realise one succeed is due to luck and keep blow trumpet about how hard they work.

I think luck got 3 kind

1)Family luck - those ASK born into wealthy family with rich supportive parents

2)Genetics lottery - those tall & good-looking people (both guys & girls). I hv seen many tall pretty girls where family is stay HDB, dad is bus driver/technician so their younger days are pretty deprived, but once they start working they rise extremely fast cos their good looks open up a lot of doors. A lot of suitors, white knights will give them a helping hand and literally add wings for them to fly up.

3)General luck - some people is no rich family and looks like s.h.i.t type but they just have God's help... either in investment, business or have 贵人 in their life
example mentioned before I have this colleague comes from poor family, looks like a drug addict, short & skinny but damm lucky to meet a pretty & successful wife who stick by him. this kind is clearly general luck