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doratch

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@foo9883 How come you guys will discuss about who should be paying for meals etc even before meetup?

I am perplexed. This kind of discussion has never once came up when I was chatting with guys in dating apps. When we meet up for meals, the guys will always tell me that its their treat but I will always secretly pay for our meals before they even have a chance to treat me.
 

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I also don like other ppl test me kind of feeling

I think guys shd initiate still prevails for most of us because we know if a guy don like a girl , they ll nv initiate 🤓

even if it’s going out jus to drink a cup of kopi or Jiak zuikueh tgt ?

I think @xiaosinsinful got mentioned something along this line but I forgot his exact words alr ..
something like if guy didn’t like girl , she do what also he don like her de , right
Perhaps I should add on that it also depends on his/her previous dating experiences.

A chiobu who dated many guys would have experienced many sweet stuff done by them.

While an average female might be impressed by that one guy who went the extra mile when compared with her previous dates. :o
 

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Perhaps I should add on that it also depends on his/her previous dating experiences.

A chiobu who dated many guys would have experienced many sweet stuff done by them.

While an average female might be impressed by that one guy who went the extra mile when compared with her previous dates. :o
Hmm ok

an abnormal aunty will imagine if this my dad or my uncles , they ll go home n jjww abt girl nv offer bear e cost ..
 

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@foo9883 How come you guys will discuss about who should be paying for meals etc even before meetup?

I am perplexed. This kind of discussion has never once came up when I was chatting with guys in dating apps. When we meet up for meals, the guys will always tell me that its their treat but I will always secretly pay for our meals before they even have a chance to treat me.
1. CMB has this prompt "who should pay on the first date?"
then the girl can write. i've seen some putting "the guy should pay" or something

2. during texting about meetup, she can also pop the thing one ma
"oh by the way i expect the guy to pay on first date"

and many more...
 

Bui Kia

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Yall ah. Me trying to detox. Mai always mention simi alcohol 😑

听就好 🤪 今晚喝这个
蓝带王老吉 :s34:颜色很健康的
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Hmm ok

an abnormal aunty will imagine if this my dad or my uncles , they ll go home n jjww abt girl nv offer bear e cost ..
Frankly, if it was me, the cost is not an issue. If I had picked the restaurant, I would have a good gauge as to how much she can potentially order.

The first time can also be the last time. Can always give benefit of doubt.
 

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Frankly, if it was me, the cost is not an issue. If I had picked the restaurant, I would have a good gauge as to how much she can potentially order.
So did my uncles or maybe my pa

But i still can read their mind lor
They only want to bear cost for their own girlfriend or own family

potential stead they rather don need to pay kinda mindset .. I know them jus v well 🤓😅🤨
The first time can also be the last time. Can always give benefit of doubt.
But they don hv so many ex also la 🤔🤔
 
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