Singles Thread 2023

[Vegitto]

Staying alone is good. Easier to ask ppl out. For my case still have family commitments. Wanna go out very hard also

Yes, its good. But the housework and cooking takes up so much time and energy, I'll usually just nua in bed to rest...
And starting thinking things again

 

[Vegitto]

Like that no need wait liao...

A few click to delete the girl whatsapp.

yeah...

 

[Vegitto]

Go exercise!

Run or swim or box whatever...
Spend the time to improve yourself.

Will look for something that don't need much time.

Frankly speaking, everyday after work reach home already 8+.
If cook something simple, finish eating and washing up. nearly 10. Then bath.. 10.15pm..
By then already want to just sit or lie down and rest...

 

[Vegitto]

@Vegitto

your niceties should be your strength not weakness

its the disrespect that hurts too not just the cheating

turn your anger into self improvement

i'm beginning to think being nice is my greatest weakness.

Even at previous workplace I got taken advantage of my niceties to cover jobscope that wasnt supposed to be mine and change my working days from 5 days to 6 day while the others remain 5 days (this made me throw letter the next day after management tell me)

Unless someone here that knows me can convince me otherwise, I really think being nice is a bane in this society

 

[Lolile]

Then why the 2nd guy still chose to be with her?
He knows she also slept with me while sleeping with him, and he told me that he found out from her she also let the third guy do it to her before us but stop contacting the third guy already.

Same reason why you will take her back
Quote you “Still, if she were to choose me, then cut off with the rest of the guys after being with me, I still can forgive this.”

Perhaps his ego to flex that she chose him over you

Leopard won’t change its spot. Give her another 2-3 mths and there will be guy #4

Btw, old is she?

 

[Ec7171]

i'm beginning to think being nice is my greatest weakness.

Even at previous workplace I got taken advantage of my niceties to cover jobscope that wasnt supposed to be mine and change my working days from 5 days to 6 day while the others remain 5 days (this made me throw letter the next day after management tell me)

Unless someone here that knows me can convince me otherwise, I really think being nice is a bane in this society

If u illtreat ppl, u will oso don't end up well.

The key is to be nice to ppl who is nice to u.

Be nice but 害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。
Be tough against ppl who take advantage of it.

 

[Acyyyy]

i'm beginning to think being nice is my greatest weakness.

Even at previous workplace I got taken advantage of my niceties to cover jobscope that wasnt supposed to be mine and change my working days from 5 days to 6 day while the others remain 5 days (this made me throw letter the next day after management tell me)

Unless someone here that knows me can convince me otherwise, I really think being nice is a bane in this society

There's being nice and being nice with boundaries that you set for urself.
Be nice but if anyone overstep ur boundaries, tell yourself not to accept.
You can step up for urself, be firm and still be nice at the same time.

 

[Vegitto]

Same reason why you will take her back
Quote you “Still, if she were to choose me, then cut off with the rest of the guys after being with me, I still can forgive this.”

Perhaps his ego to flex that she chose him over you

Leopard won’t change its spot. Give her another 2-3 mths and there will be guy #4

Btw, old is she?

She's 28/29

 

[evilrion]

Yeah ok. Thank you for helping me to analyse more about the whole picture.
Ahhhh. Really feel like shyt

Always remember this.

最強悍的第三者
永遠都不是別人
而是命運

 

[evilrion]

How do you all find like minded new friends?
I don't have much hobbies nowadays nor interest in much stuff to interact with others via them

Go do something what you always wanted when you were younger, but dont have the time/energy/courage to do it.

For me cause of my job also is one of my hobbies i like.

 

[Vegitto]

If u illtreat ppl, u will oso don't end up well.

The key is to be nice to ppl who is nice to u.

Be nice but 害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。
Be tough against ppl who take advantage of it.

I always trusts people too fast

 

[Acyyyy]

最強悍的第三者
永遠都不是別人
而是命運

Aiseh, 有墨水

 

[Vegitto]

There's being nice and being nice with boundaries that you set for urself.
Be nice but if anyone overstep ur boundaries, tell yourself not to accept.
You can step up for urself, be firm and still be nice at the same time.

I have this weakness that to avoid confrontation and conflicts as much as I can, so sometimes when I got stepped on, I will not bark back

Girls will see this as being a useless guy is it?

 

[evilrion]

Well, people change. She can cut off the other guys after being with him, he also can start to be serious with her after this

That is your thinking, it might not be for that guy.
Since he already knows she is sleeping around before tgt with him.
He might just take that advantage to have her as "a gf" to sleep around and never serious with her.
Any sane guy will not choose her after know she did those stuff before getting tgt.

 

[evilrion]

Aiseh, 有墨水

zeh zeh kua wo...

 

[evilrion]

I have this weakness that to avoid confrontation and conflicts as much as I can, so sometimes when I got stepped on, I will not bark back

Girls will see this as being a useless guy is it?

This is not about a guy or a lady.
Is a basic common sense for a human, if things go wrong, of course, one must stand up for oneself.

 

[Vegitto]

That is your thinking, it might not be for that guy.
Since he already knows she is sleeping around before tgt with him.
He might just take that advantage to have her as "a gf" to sleep around and never serious with her.
Any sane guy will not choose her after know she did those stuff before getting tgt.

I guess so..........

 

[Bui Kia]

 

[evilrion]

Morning kor kor

 

[Bui Kia]

Haha interesting..

I hear about 自我，本我，高我。is that what u referring to?

i only hear and know 打我 ， 踢我 ， 砍我
因为 打是情 骂是爱 不打不骂 不相爱