Singles Thread 2023

Ec7171

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Talking abt ex is a double edge sword. Dont say or say half, then accuse of having something to hide. Tell full story, then later become you did this with ex but not me, love him/her more blah blah blah. Worse is when that someone is easily jelly type yet want to probe and probe
Say what oso wrong one la..
My way is dun touch at all from start till end.

From dating till together, I won't ask so they dun hav an excuse to ask oso.
 

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One reason why single males score better during schooling days is because u don't ask unnecessary questions. U like, u woo. No need to care about background or history. That approach substantially increases success rate.

Regardless of context, for any gender to be single by a certain age, it could be by choice, it could be by circumstances. Nevertheless, there is some history. Without a full disclosure, are u going to walk out of a relationship and during the relationship? Or are u going to overlook the past and look forward to a future together? Make ur choice and don't waste their time. Their youth is limited.

Whatever the intention, unsolicited advice is unwanted advice (just like this one). Sometimes it is not because they want to avoid a tough question, there is simply no need to answer. To some of them, who are you to demand an answer anyway?

Lastly, different people have different views. It doesn't mean that because our views are not aligned, we cannot be friends. But if we know for sure that this particular view is going to trigger the fellow, what's the point of going through a big argument for nothing to change?

Nothing to change is ur assumption.
If we all assume that something will change, will you still say it?

If assuming something will change then you trigger that person is probably a short term pain. But in the end they will gain long term(assuming something will change).
 

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Nothing to change is ur assumption.
If we all assume that something will change, will you still say it?

If assuming something will change then you trigger that person is probably a short term pain. But in the end they will gain long term(assuming something will change).
I repeat again.. unsolicited advice remains unwanted.

You cannot change someone who doesn't want to be changed.

I cannot guarantee results, and I am not always right.

Lastly, I am not bothered if they do better or worse.
 

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Thank you! 越晚唱的越難過 :s13:
You know the best singing and songs are often those done or sung by people on their darkest times. Once people are happy, their songs not so nice anymore. Applies to singers, composers and producers.
 
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