Singles Thread 2023

[saiyan2005]

Yea I thk like wise and I think e text comms to get to know each other more
Communication styles , free timings


Get to know someone a bit more before face to face meet up ?

Ya if someone workaholic so busy , just get ur own life n don alws revolve around them .. else u d feel why they Tk so long

If meet up can ask them nicely to see why they Tk so long to reply a few text ?

I prefer texting first before meeting up. At least can gauge interest and find out wat she likes. If no common topic then no point meeting up. Waste of time

 

[Ec7171]

Yea I thk like wise and I think e text comms to get to know each other more
Communication styles , free timings


Get to know someone a bit more before face to face meet up ?

Ya if someone workaholic so busy , just get ur own life n don alws revolve around them .. else u d feel why they Tk so long

If meet up can ask them nicely to see why they Tk so long to reply a few text ?

There are ppl purposely take time to reply.

One day one long msg. Because they are insecure. They dun want to seen as v interested.

So gotta be vague and left options open.

 

[Ec7171]

I prefer texting first before meeting up. At least can gauge interest and find out wat she likes. If no common topic then no point meeting up. Waste of time

Actually the best is a phone call before meet up.

But sg girls super shy le...

 

[saltydog]

what a torture to be texting and waiting for the girl i like to reply. Which takes 6hrs, 12hrs intervals for her to reply. Will you all still reply her each time you see her text? also dono why got a certain window of time for her to reply.

But still willing to meet up again wor.

moi own personal opinion ish see hau she reacts during her off days(presumably the wkends). if also same den moi will juz delete coz even if shes into chiu, it probably wont werk well anyways. sho no nid waste taim

 

[Wstc333]

Ppl say enjoy being single the right one will come. Dunno how true it is

The right one wont just come if there is no effort ba. If u wan get attached u have to meet more people n socialise

 

[Solojaywalker]

Not so bad..

Still can hangout. I tot u already give cold signals in msgs lol

if on rare instances, i feel they wld be overthinker types / make use of the friend term to "hope" to get close to moi on a lomantic levels then definitely won't get to see moi infront or anywhere near them ever in person, again

 

[Encouragesome1]

but generally quite sien of forum cause seems like regardless of how big this forum is, seems near-impossible for moi to locate 我的同路人, unfortunately

we know them by their words
Some ppl is quite same human as their words / text pattern
Some r vastly diff ppl irl vs in online world
Secondly didi u also not meeting >80% of e human here so if there is one or more tongluren for u, u maybe also hvt met this person

Met alr also need suffice time to know them enuf(what’s their life goals ? What s their one year plan ? What keeps them awake everyday ? What r their fears? What do they worry most if their last day on earth is tomorrow ) as a human then can know this person ur tongluren or not right ?

privately moi 目前没有对象, additionally if moi don't see them or her in that romantic tone, moi won't keep them around. I hope they do this to moi also, minimally becus seems like they don't have the conscience to practice this minimal gesture

Jus hv to self practice … if someone keep trying to find u and u see they like u romantically and u don…

U let them know nicely: is correct ya good job didi

 

[Ec7171]

drop her entirely cause she's not into you

they'll be more "quicker" to reply as they're keen to know you better, or more

moi own personal opinion ish see hau she reacts during her off days(presumably the wkends). if also same den moi will juz delete coz even if shes into chiu, it probably wont werk well anyways. sho no nid waste taim

Hello...

U all cannot judge ppl by their timing of the messages.

Next time, pls be patient la.. Go fish other girls oso lo.

If she reply then good. If nv reply, just let it be.

 

[Encouragesome1]

wats tongtiren?

I thk meant husband wife or
Siamese twin
For him should be former (not latter )

 

[Encouragesome1]

moi own personal opinion ish see hau she reacts during her off days(presumably the wkends). if also same den moi will juz delete coz even if shes into chiu, it probably wont werk well anyways. sho no nid waste taim

V wise today

 

[Solojaywalker]

dun think so
she will kar hun ki then close the door ... "走什么？
继续...我要你趴着出去 J J 宝贝 生日快乐

兄弟，看太多电影

 

[Ec7171]

if on rare instances, i feel they wld be overthinker types / make use of the friend term to "hope" to get close to moi on a lomantic levels then definitely won't get to see moi infront or anywhere near them ever in person, again

Do u need so many female friends in the first place?

Tonight hang out with which female friend?

 

[saiyan2005]

Hello...

U all cannot judge ppl by their timing of the messages.

Next time, pls be patient la.. Go fish other girls oso lo.

If she reply then good. If nv reply, just let it be.

Ya now if the persons don't reply I just delete liao. No point being needy

 

[Encouragesome1]

I prefer texting first before meeting up. At least can gauge interest and find out wat she likes. If no common topic then no point meeting up. Waste of time

Same for me
But diff humans do thg differently also
In my recollection got 2 ppl v diff ppl in text vs in real life ..

 

[Wstc333]

对~~
现实生活中也是这样 遇到 Chiobu 和 Yandao 确实很美 很帅 但是并不代表适合你 因为他们只是过客
那些你不留意的 Dinobu 和 恐龙 或许适合你。。。可是你却错过了

Chiobu n yandao doesnt mean their character good also. 不要單看外表. Dinobu n 恐龍 also 有很好的. Problem though is usually they have low self esteem and that can manifest into insecurities n controlling behaviour

 

[Bui Kia]

這種話聽多了 attach了又是另一套

words too cheap ~ nothing is real 没办法
不过 我会用行动表示 不是说而已 AKSM ?

 

[Wstc333]

For me ... my 2024 NY resolution

1) 吃不肥 喝不胖
2) 把一粒练成八粒腹肌 六粒也可的
3) 找个伴一起享受天伦之乐

Was that your 2023 resolution too

 

[Encouragesome1]

There are ppl purposely take time to reply.

One day one long msg. Because they are insecure. They dun want to seen as v interested.

So gotta be vague and left options open.

If alr boy girl fren or family want to play mind game once in a blue moon still ok cos u alr knew each other long long long
If new fren or potential romantic interest n want to play mind games n pretend is v boliao .. to me I jus think why this human like to waste time

 

[Bui Kia]

moi wld avoid hanging out 1v1 unless they oso sees moi as onli-frens then can hangout

maybe can start from a small group ...more ppls more fun ...
if found someone which 谈得来 then maybe can consider 1v1 lor

 

[saltydog]

Hello...

U all cannot judge ppl by their timing of the messages.

Next time, pls be patient la.. Go fish other girls oso lo.

If she reply then good. If nv reply, just let it be.

moi pt ish even if it somehow werks out initially, moi own personal opinion ish it still wouldnt werk out in the long term. sho huai waste taim??