Singles Thread 2023

Encouragesome1

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Good question. It was an educated bet. :s13:

Must know what you want, and take chances in life. :o
Sometimes u can โ€œknow โ€œsomeone all ur life but only know them 2233 and wonโ€™t really know them until life throws them some rocks or boomerangs ๐Ÿชƒ
 

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Sometimes u can โ€œknow โ€œsomeone all ur life but only know them 2233 and wonโ€™t really know them until life throws them some rocks or boomerangs ๐Ÿชƒ
So.. are u going to wait until life throws u some rocks and boomerangs, survive liao, before getting together? That's illogical, and impossible.

Thus, u need to take a "chance" based on whatever information available at the point of time.
 

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So.. are u going to wait until life throws u some rocks and boomerangs, survive liao, before getting together? That's illogical, and impossible.

Thus, u need to take a "chance" based on whatever information available at the point of time.
agree w yr rationale
Thing is not enuf info is as good n blind faith ==bukeyi ==sure die
 

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Again, the next question would be how much info is "enough"?
Maybe knowing this human s life outside of two human rs
How is he / she like with others in their out of their social circle , within social circle , rs w parents and with bff โ€˜s
N what kind of human this social circle โญ•๏ธ is in 3-5 adjectives

Long story short, the character matters. If u cannot trust the character, u cannot trust the info.
Agreed the most

today I see u so wise n articulate ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ
 

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Maybe knowing this human s life outside of two human rs
How is he / she like with others in their out of their social circle , within social circle , rs w parents and with bff โ€˜s
N what kind of human this social circle โญ•๏ธ is in 3-5 adjectives


Agreed the most

today I see u so wise n articulate ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ
Very unlikely you will meet people within his/her social circles early into the dating stage. Whatever info he/she shares with u is one-sided, and it is possible that he/she is not entirely truthful.

The only thing u can really gauge at that point is the person's character and consistency of his/her sharing.

I'm not really bothered about anyone thinking me as wise or unwise la. :s13:
 

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Very unlikely you will meet people within his/her social circles early into the dating stage. Whatever info he/she shares with u is one-sided, and it is possible that he/she is not entirely truthful.

The only thing u can really gauge at that point is the person's character and consistency of his/her sharing.

I'm not really bothered about anyone thinking me as wise or unwise la. :s13:

A person character can b hidden very well even after marriage n that's where the true self reveals ... a couple being tgt should spent more quality time together ... ofc there should b some 'me time' to rediscover what a person wants n spend more time talking to each other ... anything on the Internet can b said easily selling heartware with words etc ... until one can witness what that person irl is actually doing then that's more real than reel ... honesty clarity transparency should b upfront between a married couple or in a rs

I m not wise but I observed
 

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A person character can b hidden very well even after marriage n that's where the true self reveals ... a couple being tgt should spent more quality time together ... ofc there should b some 'me time' to rediscover what a person wants n spend more time talking to each other ... anything on the Internet can b said easily selling heartware with words etc ... until one can witness what that person irl is actually doing then that's more real than reel ... honesty clarity transparency should b upfront between a married couple or in a rs

I m not wise but I observed
How's life, dude? Long time nv see u come in liao!
 
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