Singles Thread 2023

[Vegitto]

There will always be a guy #4, #5 and so forth if she felt that she is compromising on her criteria for a bf. She will only stop looking after she finally found one that meets all her criteria in a bf/husband.

So, its never about the other guy if she doesn't choose you. Its all about you yourself. So, you will only be able to find a girl only when she thought that you fit all her criteria that she wanted in a bf.

Of course, even if one is in a relationship, more challenges lie ahead.

Lots of guys got it...

 

[Vegitto]

Sigh.
Anyway thank you everyone.

I'm going out for a breather.
Feels very suffocating at home now.
Enjoy your weekends guys

 

[Vegitto]

Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a mistake

the lyrics is v applicable to u

I never wanna hear you say..
I want it that way

 

[Acyyyy]

I should start drawing lines

Cheer up, Zeh zeh buy marker for you to draw.

 

[doratch]

Lots of guys got it...

Then you gotta reflect on yourself why you haven't got a gf yet. Is it your looks, your character/personality etc?

We couldn't change how other ppl think of us. But we can change others' opinions of us by changing ourselves first by improving ourselves even better.
If you feel nothing wrong about your looks, your physical appearance or personality/character, well... then you just gotta wait for a girl who, without you needing to change the-present-you, fits all her criteria for a bf/husband liao.

Whichever makes sense to you and you can just do that.

1) Either change yourself to be a better version of you or
2) Do nothing and hope a girl will think that you fulfill all her criteria in a bf/husband without her needing to compromise.

 

[doratch]

Mine told me that they wanna make sure the teeth did not shifted since last visit so they need to xray.

Huh? Got this kind of stuff deh? Wah seh.

 

[saiyan2005]

There will always be a guy #4, #5 and so forth if she felt that she is compromising on her criteria for a bf. She will only stop looking after she finally found one that meets all her criteria in a bf/husband.

So, its never about the other guy if she doesn't choose you. Its all about you yourself. So, you will only be able to find a girl only when she thought that you fit all her criteria that she wanted in a bf.

Of course, even if one is in a relationship, more challenges lie ahead.

Yes wat u say is the hard truth. Usually is wat the girl wants. If she can find one or two in another guy then he will choose that guy

 

[doratch]

Yes wat u say is the hard truth. Usually is wat the girl wants. If she can find one or two in another guy then he will choose that guy

Yup.

She hiam guys and guys hiam her too. It works both ways. Just like maybe he hiams dinobu and the girl hiams him.

The other guy might be even more lacking than him (but maybe fulfills the most criteria that she is looking for) but if she decides that she likes the other guy more, then yes, she will choose the other guy.

And this is not even marriage yet.

There are also some people who just marry the one whom they think that they can live together for the rest of their lives with the least amount of drama from the other party despite not loving him/her 100%.

 

[Acyyyy]

Huh? Got this kind of stuff deh? Wah seh.

Ya i did ask why can't they do it according to my previous record they said cannot.

 

[saiyan2005]

Yup.

She hiam guys and guys hiam her too. It works both ways. Just like maybe he hiams dinobu and the girl hiams him.

The other guy might be even more lacking than him (but maybe fulfills the most criteria that she is looking for) but if she decides that she likes the other guy more, then yes, she will choose the other guy.

And this is not even marriage yet.

There are also some people who just marry the one whom they think that they can live together for the rest of their lives with the least amount of drama from the other party despite not loving him/her 100%.

Yes this poke my heart haha. Like the girl who rejected me. That others guy don't have responsibility of family. Can like go travelling with her anytime and can bring her to the place she dunno. For me i cannot. I still got family and I am not very knowledgeable in those stuff. The guy also very short and got sickness. But is the criteria he have which him attractive to her

 

[Decorum]

didnt win 5m toto
cannot go korea zhng face

Mai sad
My face ugly also

 

[Vegitto]

Then you gotta reflect on yourself why you haven't got a gf yet. Is it your looks, your character/personality etc?

We couldn't change how other ppl think of us. But we can change others' opinions of us by changing ourselves first by improving ourselves even better.
If you feel nothing wrong about your looks, your physical appearance or personality/character, well... then you just gotta wait for a girl who, without you needing to change the-present-you, fits all her criteria for a bf/husband liao.

Whichever makes sense to you and you can just do that.

1) Either change yourself to be a better version of you or
2) Do nothing and hope a girl will think that you fulfill all her criteria in a bf/husband without her needing to compromise.

Changing myself will take time

 

[doratch]

Changing myself will take time

Then take all the time you need.

欲速则不达。
More haste, less speed.

 

[Decorum]

didnt win 5m toto
cannot go korea zhng face

Yeah even if unlimited funds

need to consider if u willing to accept surgery pain too

for those non GA procedures

 

[Decorum]

 

[cleffa3000]

simi lyrics. what song u wan to sing w moi

so funny
iyai i yai i yai
i yai i yai i yai i yai

 

[cleffa3000]

Loving myself first...,...

very hard for u to move on meh

 

[cleffa3000]

Then you gotta reflect on yourself why you haven't got a gf yet. Is it your looks, your character/personality etc?

We couldn't change how other ppl think of us. But we can change others' opinions of us by changing ourselves first by improving ourselves even better.
If you feel nothing wrong about your looks, your physical appearance or personality/character, well... then you just gotta wait for a girl who, without you needing to change the-present-you, fits all her criteria for a bf/husband liao.

Whichever makes sense to you and you can just do that.

1) Either change yourself to be a better version of you or
2) Do nothing and hope a girl will think that you fulfill all her criteria in a bf/husband without her needing to compromise.

he havent move on
still want to get gf ar

ownself problem havent settle yet, want to look for more problems

 

[kleong]

@kleong ah hia ish dis true??

Idk, i bbfa got no friends