Singles Thread 2023

Ec7171

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RedRedWine said:
Its true bro problem with many is they dont feel there is problem with themselves

from personal exp, if u own any problem you face and look for a solution by firsy changing yourself then there is a good fighting chance u can make things better
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Trying tell smokers to quit. They know it's bad but still continues. Once health scare, stop. Once health recover, starts again.

Sometimes it is jus hard to change urself. Even harder to change someone else.
 
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Ec7171 said:
Trying tell smokers to quit. They know it's bad but still continues. Once health scare, stop. Once health recover, starts again.

Sometimes it is jus hard to change urself. Even harder to change someone else.
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Thats why change must come from self recognition, the person themsleves must see a need and motivation to change
 
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Ec7171 said:
Trying tell smokers to quit. They know it's bad but still continues. Once health scare, stop. Once health recover, starts again.

Sometimes it is jus hard to change urself. Even harder to change someone else.
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People will change only when they realised that there is a need to change or the change benefits them.
They have to see the long term benefits instead of short term.

For smokers, there is another issue of addiction. If they don't have the perseverance and determination, then its also a gone case. But smoking affects others too. There is 2nd hand smoke and 3rd hand smoke too.
 
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doratch said:
People will change only when they realised that there is a need to change or the change benefits them.
They have to see the long term benefits instead of short term.

For smokers, there is another issue of addiction. If they don't have the perseverance and determination, then its also a gone case. But smoking affects others too. There is 2nd hand smoke and 3rd hand smoke too.
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Thats y no need change mah
 
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cleffa3000 said:
Thats y no need change mah
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That depends on individuals then.

If they kpkb abt girls dun give them a chance coz they are buibui, then it makes sense for them to lose weight in order to attract their attention, right? But most will come up with excuses why they are unable/can't lose weight. The best quote is "if you can't accept me at my worst (when I am buibui), then you don't deserve me at my best (when I become fitzai).".

If they don't see the need to change, then dun kpkb about the outcome.
 
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doratch said:
That depends on individuals then.

If they kpkb abt girls dun give them a chance coz they are buibui, then it makes sense for them to lose weight in order to attract their attention, right? But most will come up with excuses why they are unable/can't lose weight. The best quote is "if you can't accept me at my worst (when I am buibui), then you don't me at my best (when I become fitzai).".

If they don't see the need to change, then dun kpkb about the outcome.
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Yah lor thats y i dont kpkb jjww
 
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