Bazi reading is quite similar. Then I try to throw some
using my family's bazi.
Anyway, one interesting portion on the romance part.
Romance and Compatibilities
When it comes to love you are extreme, either too demanding or too docile. Love affairs are full of intricacies which you are not good at handling. It is not a clearcut game where you either win or lose. More often than not you cannot distinguish between love and pity for someone who need your moral support or pity. You needs someone you love to loosen your rigidity. You cannot tell the difference between pity and love. Aries, Leo, Libra and Aquarius born in Ox/Snake/Dragon years you will find irresistible and have mutual feelings.
A passionate person, you have a knack for love and you may have many love affairs in your lifetime even after getting married. You are a sweet talker and are very clever in romantic matters and these often convey the wrong message to people whom you might not have an interest at heart. It is likely that you get into love triangles involving both married and unmarried parties. But once you are truly in love you can be a very good partner, offering your sweet, gentle and charming ways.
You are attracted to people especially those of the opposite sex and can get along well with them as they possess a lot of your favourable elements. In your case it is people who possess the excess or strong elements like Wood and Water
However, there are times you can be attracted to people who may not possess your favourable elements but he/she may be going through a Luck Pillar which are favourable elements of yours. Thus when this Luck Pillar has passed, then there will be a change of attitude or liking, which you have previously encountered. The changing elements will subconsciously affect your mood and feelings towards your loved ones. That explains why we often find that someone suddenly does not appear to be attractive anymore. Likewise, this might also happen to you when somebody who once loved you might find you no longer attractive.
You are likely to encounter romance or "flower of romance" during the Luck Pillar, year, month or even day where the period concerned is represented by the animal signs of Horse and Rabbit.
You have every opportunity to get married and you will not find any difficulty in getting women in your lifetime. During your courtship you might be courting more than one lady at the one time. It will be a surprise if anyone can find that you are single for the rest of your life. You are not short of opportunities in love affairs during your lifetime even after you are married or attached. You have at least a few opportunities in your lifetime encountering several romances and may have a few suitors at one time.
Therefore, it is an achievement if you can commit yourself to one woman. Thus, abstaining yourself for further commitments by exercising self-discipline. This will protect your highly valued happy marriage for the sake of preserving your family harmony.
