yes, i suppose someting is wrong with my head structure but i cant change that, if theframe is bent & twisted all over it will look ugly (makes me feel psychologically imbalanced as well)& could break from overbending.
I have tried light frames, but it will still slip off becos most frames if they are light they dont have the grip as well. How thin can lenses be when prescription is high, can only be up to a certain extent & the lenses always heavier than the frame if the frame is the light ones. And for those light frames usually they are unable to cover the thickness of the lenses = ugly

its just so hard to find a good frame. Silicon will still slip on oily surfaces & overtime they lose the stickiness as well although they are still a better option.
The opticians offer no solutions, they either just ask you how i feel & where im feeling uncomfortable but even after adjustments still feel uncomfortable. Some get so frustrated that they ask me to go find other optician if i think that they are no good while others just tell me to get used to my frame.