Sincerely hope this turns out well for you. But on a side note, try not to have a defeatist mentality that you are suay kia etc, sometimes it is self-fulfilling.
Not sure if the posts on offers/PM made to you are genuine, but if the watch really bothers you and the offers are reasonable, perhaps it is best to off load.
While this is a watch thread and I too enjoy watches like many here, in this smart phone era, a watch is no longer a necessity as a means to tell time and there are equal or more people out there who lead a happy life without a (nice) watch. Perhaps mechanical watches are not really your cup of tea?
TGIF and good luck again!