Mother used to chase in the past, but last 3 years plus or so didn’t. She developed quite serious orthopaedic issues during the pandemic, requiring 3 operations, the last being a knee replacement Q1 last year. She is depression prone as well. I got to take care of her in her advancing years, attending to her daily needs (she can still move and not wheel chair bound but need assistance). It is quite physically and mentally tiring and I don’t think I can juggle and multi task between job, taking care of her and having another relationship with a view of getting married. Have been single for many years and with what happened recently, I more or less quite used to the thought of perhaps not getting married. Or only perhaps looking for companion after my mum passed on? I don’t know...I’m quite alight with my current situation....don’t exactly feel lonely..