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testart

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Feel weird under this arrangement since money is involved

I rather my relatives intro old virgin to me
 

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This uncle got good business. I accompanied my friend and relative there, saw many ppl. My friend diploma only also can find. What this boss said is right, the brides just want a guy who has at least some consistent finance. You have a job they will ok already. My friend married the vb at 39, the vb very young (22), 2010 married and moved into beautiful bto, got two boys, now in secondary sch liao. many Sg girls forget that a diploma guy can always study parttime degree and rise from there. my friend studied ntu part time after marriage, wife very supportive, taking care of family. now my friend asia pacific manager for fire extinguisher company.
 

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No wonder so many sinkie girls stuck....
sinkie girls are trained to be workers, not wives or mothers.

this is already normalised, so things will not change. lol

i'd recommend hiring sinkie females to work in the office, but i wouldn't recommend marrying one
 

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sinkie girls are trained to be workers, not wives or mothers.

this is already normalised, so things will not change. lol
Then set timeline and tasks for them to complete at home and they'd operate well. Schedule big room planning and daily scrum to discuss the task update. Plan leave and allow take mc.
 

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This uncle got good business. I accompanied my friend and relative there, saw many ppl. My friend diploma only also can find. What this boss said is right, the brides just want a guy who has at least some consistent finance. You have a job they will ok already. My friend married the vb at 39, the vb very young (22), 2010 married and moved into beautiful bto, got two boys, now in secondary sch liao. many Sg girls forget that a diploma guy can always study parttime degree and rise from there. my friend studied ntu part time after marriage, wife very supportive, taking care of family. now my friend asia pacific manager for fire extinguisher company.
2010 married still got good vnb willing to go through thick and thin with the husband and care solely for the husband family etc.

Nowadays no more liao. They just see husband as ATM. Got money got honey. Everything is for their own family back in Vietnam. They don't give a shat about the husband's family.
 

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don't assume these vietbu are simple minded...they are not

In short atb 2.0, same confusian culture, won't deviate too much. Esp those who come from tampons. Focus always 90% money 1% love.

Atbs now upsize and upmarket so message appears less crude the essence remains the same.
 

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even they from a village, once come here got peer influence. from giordano to LV then next want to be like Jamie
 

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If ownself met thru mutual love n attraction still ok, if thru agency it seems easier to find love for money shams nowadays and it s more n more often now… not our men cheat others.
it’s our ppl needing protection from preys from other countries
cos many these days like to marry for our money then mia or mia many a times but kept asking our ppl for $$ endlessly. I speak from examples of two relatives
Think regardless of from where, maybe one sign of issues is when the other half always want to go home to the family overseas, even when have children. This kind often not really responsible for or want to be invested in the family one. Either more likely end up dysfunctional family or run road.
 
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