Woman Breaks Up With Boyfriend Who Tried To Force Her To Accept Coriander

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Traditionally male ish the provider.
Sho female ish dependent on primarily the male for resources.
Secondary source of resources ish the society at large.
Sho to secure said resources female must secure control over the male.
And also to establish a norm where society ish compliant to female's needs.
Thish ish huai females sh!t test their partners.
Or behave unreasonably to pple around them.
To test how complaint pple are to her.
And if she didn't get her way she will use her mouth to bully them into complaince.

In modern day despite equality and females can ownself provide for ownself females still retain thish instinct.
The push for equality is flawed in the sense that it focuses only on what women don't have,not what they do.
 

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ppl still think if in love each other, will change for each other
but usually that not the case

Coriander has medicinal properties. this is why it appears in many asian dishes. i use it often at home in my cooking.
 

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Bf is actually a great person. The reason she hates coriander is likely because of an intrinsic fear. And her bf was trying to make her conquer her fear and see that coriander is just a vegetable that is nothing to be afraid or hateful of.

Once that fear is conquered she will develop a new sense of perspective for corianders. And that would make her a better person overall who now doesn't easily give in to her fears. He was actually being very caring and trying to elevate the gf. If he didn't care he wouldn't have gaf what she eats or doesn't eat.

Gf is a petty ghost. 5 yr relationship ended because of a fugging vegetable. Even the coriander also stunned.
 

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The push for equality is flawed in the sense that it focuses only on what women don't have,not what they do.

Equality means equal rights, equal fights.

Female suicide rates are lower coz they hab the instinct expectation immediate pple around them and society will bail them out of whatever fix their life ish in and make things right for them.

But with equality that expectation ish not true.
Men walk away from women and leave women to fend for ownself.
Women are not allowed easy mode and are subjected to saem standards as men.

Sho we will see more females become more rike men.
More will ki siao or turning to suicide.
 

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Bf is actually a great person. The reason she hates coriander is likely because of an intrinsic fear. And her bf was trying to make her conquer her fear and see that coriander is just a vegetable that is nothing to be afraid or hateful of.

Once that fear is conquered she will develop a new sense of perspective for corianders. And that would make her a better person overall who now doesn't easily give in to her fears. He was actually being very caring and trying to elevate the gf. If he didn't care he wouldn't have gaf what she eats or doesn't eat.

Gf is a petty ghost. 5 yr relationship ended because of a fugging vegetable. Even the coriander also stunned.
Think its the occassion bah. Pull the stunt in the first meet. Not really too bright. Give the shock treatment. Of course the other side will react shockingly. :s22:
 

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I think he or his fanily dunno how to make perfect coriander? Cos perfect one like use in green curry or dipping sauces usually dun have strong coriander smells.
 

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You feel these are stinky but I dun feel so. Just like you feel coriander is flagrant but I totally cannot accept it.
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@AlmightyOnes
 

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Woman Breaks Up With Boyfriend Who Tried To Force Her To Accept Coriander​

The man’s attempt to make his girlfriend eat coriander backfired spectacularly, ending a five-year relationship and sparking online debate about respect in relationships.

Woman Breaks Up With Boyfriend Who Tried To Force Her To Accept Coriander

A woman from Taiwan recently broke up with her boyfriend of five years — and it was all because of coriander. Yes, the polarising green herb that, to some haters, tastes like soap.

Taking to an online forum, the woman shared she had been seeing her (now-ex) boyfriend since they were in university, and she had always thought their relationship was very stable.

Throughout the years they were together, the woman’s boyfriend often praised his mother’s cooking and showed her photos of his home-cooked meals. This year, he invited her over for dinner during the Mid-Autumn Festival so she could meet his family.

The woman was excited to finally meet his parents, and even prepared gifts for the visit. While they were on the way to his place, her boyfriend told her his mum had specially prepared “all her favourite dishes”.

However, as soon as she stepped into the house, she was hit by an overwhelming smell of coriander — the herb she hates the most. And that’s when everything started to go downhill.

She has never been able to tolerate the taste of coriander, and that was something her boyfriend definitely knew, she explained.

“Anyone who can’t eat coriander will know the nauseating feeling [the smell gives you],” she wrote. When she got to the dining table, she realised everything, bar one vegetable dish, was completely covered in coriander.

That was when her boyfriend’s mum told her: “He told me you love coriander, and specifically told me to add more of it. Eat up, okay!”

Needless to say, the woman was stunned.

She was shocked to find out her boyfriend had lied to his mother, and that she was put in such an awkward situation during her first meeting with his family. She tried to stay polite at dinner and quietly picked out the herb, but on the inside, she was furious.

A huge fight broke out in the car as he was sending her home.

The woman questioned her boyfriend (who loves coriander, btw) about the reason behind his actions.

His response? He wanted her to “try accepting coriander”, adding that he found it “weird” she won’t eat it.

That was her last straw — she broke up with him on the spot and blocked him from contacting her.

Later, as she reflected on her decision in her post, she penned: “Was it really worth giving up a five-year relationship over coriander? Yes. Absolutely.”

She revealed that she had always been considerate of her boyfriend’s food preferences. She’s a lot less picky about food than him, only avoiding coriander and bitter gourd.

When she cooked for the both of them, she would always avoid ingredients he didn’t like, which includes nearly all green vegetables, carrots, wood ear mushrooms, eggplants, bean sprouts, bell peppers, tomatoes, onions, and certain types of mushrooms and melons. Now that’s a long list.

“Cooking was always a challenge, but I still did my best to make what he liked,” she wrote, adding that “one should always enjoy themselves while eating”.

She was heartbroken and angered by the fact that he chose to make light of the one thing she truly couldn’t stand.

She hadn’t told her family and friends about what happened as she, too, found it “extremely absurd”.

Though her decision to give up on a long-term relationship may seem rash, the woman received an overwhelming amount of support from other netizens.

Many said her ex shouldn’t have forced her to eat something she hates, with the majority agreeing that he did not “respect her basic preferences”.

The coriander might have been her tipping point, but they believed it was a reflection of how little respect he had for her.

“He sounds controlling — trying to force you to accept something you dislike,” remarked one netizen, while another echoed: “The coriander is not the issue here, he sounds self-centred and inconsiderate.”

Do you think she made the right decision?

Photos: Magdalena Olszewska/ Unsplash, Anthony Tran/ Unsplash

https://www.8days.sg/entertainment/asian/woman-breaks-boyfriend-coriander-848996

Its all abt respect.
He din respect her at all.

He is also a liar.
He lied to his mum.

I support her decision to break up.
 

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she should be with me. birds eat worms wolf eat meat. u ask wolf to eat worm see i know this logic well
 
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