For my case,For me, house pay finish. No car. Left 2 kids 15,16 going on to Poly,Uni so they still take pocket monies and need monies to let them study local Uni. If they go overseas I cannot imagine the monies needed. Elderly left mother which need periodic medical appointment and helper to look after as me and spouse working full-time.
Financial your typical FD, SSB, T-bill (recently), FSM, dollarDex, poems for mutual fund. Endowus,Syfe,Webull (recent platform). The amount I calculate is ok for me to use I can retire now no need work fulltime. But the kids and mother unknown spending needed is what hold me back. You know the unknown sum of monies can be very big one. Medical if kena long term is financial and emotional draining. Kids if insist go overseas Uni the monies etc etc.
That is why you see my post I always mention kids and elderly. These two big items need to settle else it will affect how early you want to retire and stop working. I cannot imagine those families with 3,4,5,6 kids how they take it sia.
1. Kids. They have always been high achievers. If they want to go overseas to further their education, they have to fight for their own scholarships. For local universities, I have made provisions for a law and medicine degree.
2. Parents. Yes chornic health issues, so they r receiving subsidised medical care. Not ideal but it can still be tolerated.
Life events and mishaps are inevitable. Just got to manage along the way. Life goes on. : D
Investments got hammered pretty badly. It's the lowest increase since 2020 when the stock market went freefall during the lockdowns