Been a month...realise I still like her alot

[Foetid]

i wonder ts nickname means what. plpl . anyone wants to guess?

paul lam, paul lam?

 

[Foetid]

Been a month, thought maybe I will forget her slowly since I never bump into her for quite a while and just kept myself busy. This week, I bumped into her a few times. Saw her talking with other colleagues, esp males, and I feel quite down even though I knew it is about work and cannot focus on work. Then realise that I still like her alot. Even as I do household chores just now, she came to my mind.

Knew she was esp busy this week, so I bought snacks for her. Can see she appreciate it, she said thanks with such a sweet smile. Hopefully it's not so awkward alrdy and I can ask her out for a meal soon...

sometimes, is better u look for someone who likes u n u also like vs one direction.

 

[Kaylin]

Not coping well lol. Just now I was feeling very down and cried when I was packing some of his stuff. So I come here to see see read read and “relax”.

can see u & yr dad beri close, and he was yr emotional support also? its rare to see ppl being close with their family now

honestly im still grieving over my ex also, together for 2 yrs then found out he was married. sometimes i blame myself then soemtimes i blame him but ive been working on myself so and i feel better on some days so i believe i can pull thru

 

[Shawny88]

Been a month, thought maybe I will forget her slowly since I never bump into her for quite a while and just kept myself busy. This week, I bumped into her a few times. Saw her talking with other colleagues, esp males, and I feel quite down even though I knew it is about work and cannot focus on work. Then realise that I still like her alot. Even as I do household chores just now, she came to my mind.

Knew she was esp busy this week, so I bought snacks for her. Can see she appreciate it, she said thanks with such a sweet smile. Hopefully it's not so awkward alrdy and I can ask her out for a meal soon...

我也是过来人…I broke girls’ hearts before and girls broke my heart in the past too

go workout, pick up a new hobby, go meet new people and can consider do it via dating apps. The feeling won’t go entirely away but it helps.

 

[kodomo80]

can see u & yr dad beri close, and he was yr emotional support also? its rare to see ppl being close with their family now

honestly im still grieving over my ex also, together for 2 yrs then found out he was married. sometimes i blame myself then soemtimes i blame him but ive been working on myself so and i feel better on some days so i believe i can pull thru

can la! 明天会更好啦

 

[SpicyBird]

sometimes, is better u look for someone who likes u n u also like vs one direction.

lol this is so hard, it's always the one direction most of the time. if not really like tio toto liao.

 

[kodomo80]

lol this is so hard, it's always the one direction most of the time. if not really like tio toto liao.

thts why u always try until it becomes both direction

 

[kodomo80]

我也是过来人…I broke girls’ hearts before and girls broke my heart in the past too

go workout, pick up a new hobby, go meet new people and can consider do it via dating apps. The feeling won’t go entirely away but it helps.

all of us have our past, some just more sexciting.

 

[Nevereatrice]

we tend to want what we don't have, so if you ignore her, she may want your attention more than if you're super friendly with her. e.g. if i'm attracted to 2 people and one openly shows interest while the other is more reserved/things are more ambiguous, my attention will probably go to the latter simply because things are not clear? that person will intrigue me more. i feel this works only if she has some attraction to you, though.

lol this game only works on girls who is interested in u. and only if ts is as handsome and x factor as edison Chen.if short and average take bus everyday go home jiak $2.5 cai png after work better go put effort don't even try attempt any games
i ask u la if short and average looking goody 2 shoes guys ignore u u will give a hoot to him? lol

 

[KcSpider]

Just saying from experience, sometimes it takes one big round for you to end up with the same person again. .... Just go out and enjoy your experience with others meanwhile,

lol this is so hard, it's always the one direction most of the time. if not really like tio toto liao.

thts why u always try until it becomes both direction

if short and average take bus everyday go home jiak $2.5 cai png after work better go put effort don't even try attempt any games

Agree that 2nd chance with the same person is possible, but only certain things change. TS cannot stay the same and expect things to change.

So if TS will change his lifestyle to pick up new good habits, skills and experiences, it''s possible the girl will sense this change, maybe she will chat with him about some of the new things happening. At the least she can see him "moving" and not stagnant.

On the other hand, don't want to give TS a false hope. TS do this for yourself and not for her ok? Go out and find things you would like to do. Use your SkillsFuture credit that is expiring this year.

Not every girl goes for rich handsome guys. Not enough rich handsome guys lol. Sometimes on the bus can see pretty ladies who have buibui husbands, both taking bus back home together, quite sweet also. So moi think TS sure can find someone he loves who loves him, but first he have to actually take a step to do something different.

 

[Nevereatrice]

Agree that 2nd chance with the same person is possible, but only certain things change. TS cannot stay the same and expect things to change.

So if TS will change his lifestyle to pick up new good habits, skills and experiences, it''s possible the girl will sense this change, maybe she will chat with him about some of the new things happening. At the least she can see him "moving" and not stagnant.

On the other hand, don't want to give TS a false hope. TS do this for yourself and not for her ok? Go out and find things you would like to do. Use your SkillsFuture credit that is expiring this year.

Not every girl goes for rich handsome guys. Not enough rich handsome guys lol. Sometimes on the bus can see pretty ladies who have buibui husbands, both taking bus back home together, quite sweet also. So moi think TS sure can find someone he loves who loves him, but first he have to actually take a step to do something different.

make her laugh be a clown is path of short average guys. act cool play mind games only reserved for tall rich handsome

 

[MarkerForProjector]

Then realise that I still like her alot.

Just move on la.... She is not interested.
Don't waste your youth. Time is limited.

If she was interested, would have contacted u earlier... 1 month also no action....

Can try dating apps to find new target....
If u got money, can try ktv, Siam Diu... Many helpful Jiejie can help u forgetted her.

 

[kodomo80]

make her laugh be a clown is path of short average guys. act cool play mind games only reserved for tall rich handsome

acherlee hor, make one laugh and be a joker is always the path to any girls. This in a way also shows your confidence and character too

 

[MarkerForProjector]

hope u can shares your happiness and her happiness with each others when anyone of u is happy so that happiness can x2

and if she or u sad got each other for accompany so that saddness divide 2

Bro... How about yourself??
Finded your new sharing partner?

 

[kodomo80]

sometimes ppl just need a tight slap to the face to wake up

 

[Kanko San]

我也是过来人…I broke girls’ hearts before and girls broke my heart in the past too

go workout, pick up a new hobby, go meet new people and can consider do it via dating apps. The feeling won’t go entirely away but it helps.

Me too.

Broke other pple heart, they also broke mine.

Life goes on.

 

[Nevereatrice]

acherlee hor, make one laugh and be a joker is always the path to any girls. This in a way also shows your confidence and character too

yes it works to both. short average guys still act dao is go home play chess

 

[Ottoke]

Been a month, thought maybe I will forget her slowly since I never bump into her for quite a while and just kept myself busy. This week, I bumped into her a few times. Saw her talking with other colleagues, esp males, and I feel quite down even though I knew it is about work and cannot focus on work. Then realise that I still like her alot. Even as I do household chores just now, she came to my mind.

Knew she was esp busy this week, so I bought snacks for her. Can see she appreciate it, she said thanks with such a sweet smile. Hopefully it's not so awkward alrdy and I can ask her out for a meal soon...

Why does this look so creepy?

 

[kodomo80]

Why does this look so creepy?

wah Moderator lai le

 

[alex22]

wah Moderator lai le

Still TS dun wan cum cream say is stalker