Educated ladies: “If the guy cannot add value to my life, why should I marry him?”

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feeltherain said:
Pardon me for being rude and blunt.

I think she has no interest in you.
And she is not the 'Ti Ki' stubborn type.
It's evident she has no interest in you romantically, and you are deluded.
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No prob dude. I say she is the tiki type coz she like this guy v long alrdy even tbough she have alot of suitors (should see how many flowers on her desk!! and this is juz in office, imagine her home or outside). Think he don't know/never ask her out. But she still like the guy, don't know why also.
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
Even if the guy is desirable and eh Kan, educated ladies will still focus on traits that they don’t like in him. They amplify undesirable traits more than desirable ones.

Not so educated ladies focus more on desirable traits and are more forgiving of undesirable traits.
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well its okie. the guy can move on, the educated ladies can go dry age their abalone for as long as we care. there are really plenty of women out there to choose from.

just need to travel more, be more extrovert.. can liao
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
Ytd met a super educated lady in her mid 30s from an app. Scholar. Tall but average looking. High flyer and independent.

As time passed, we realized we are not suitable for each other. I prolonged the lunch cos I had nothing to do and just wanted to chat. Could tell she wanted to leave cos she checked her watch few times.

Suddenly, she kept raising her arms to tie her hair. She was wearing short sleeves. Nothing extraordinary. But I realized she kept tying her hair for no apparent reasons until her short sleeve began to slip down as her arms were being raised. Instantly I got the hint. I saw clear and black stubbles. At least three days never shaved. Once she saw that I saw, she stopped her hair tying act. I got the cue and asked for the bill. What a clever and subtle way to end a date!
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She came back from holiday and I asked her to lunch again. Wanna prove to myself that what happened on our first date was a one-off.

She came to the restaurant in a cardigan. Outdoor was hot and I wondered why she wore cardigan. Thought she would wear it throughout but she sat down and took it off. Immediately I could see what I saw before, only this time add extra two days of stubbles. Two plus three equals five days.

Restaurant was a bit cold. By right, she should be wearing cardigan indoor and not outdoor. But she reversed the order. After ten minutes, she felt the cold and wore it back. By then, she already achieved her objective. I lost my appetite, and interest. After lunch, she wore it back outdoor when it was super hot.

Scholar really has brilliant but unorthodox ways to get her feelings across.
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
She came back from holiday and I asked her to lunch again. Wanna prove to myself that what happened on our first date was a one-off.

She came to the restaurant in a cardigan. Outdoor was hot and I wondered why she wore cardigan. Thought she would wear it throughout but she sat down and took it off. Immediately I could see what I saw before, only this time add extra two days of stubbles. Two plus three equals five days.

Restaurant was a bit cold. By right, she should be wearing cardigan indoor and not outdoor. But she reversed the order. After ten minutes, she felt the cold and wore it back. By then, she already achieved her objective. I lost my appetite, and interest. After lunch, she wore it back outdoor when it was super hot.

Scholar really has brilliant but unorthodox ways to get her feelings across.
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Any advice on this? Am I being cancelled?
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
She came back from holiday and I asked her to lunch again. Wanna prove to myself that what happened on our first date was a one-off.

She came to the restaurant in a cardigan. Outdoor was hot and I wondered why she wore cardigan. Thought she would wear it throughout but she sat down and took it off. Immediately I could see what I saw before, only this time add extra two days of stubbles. Two plus three equals five days.

Restaurant was a bit cold. By right, she should be wearing cardigan indoor and not outdoor. But she reversed the order. After ten minutes, she felt the cold and wore it back. By then, she already achieved her objective. I lost my appetite, and interest. After lunch, she wore it back outdoor when it was super hot.

Scholar really has brilliant but unorthodox ways to get her feelings across.
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你情我愿， 天生犯贱。What more can we say?
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
She came back from holiday and I asked her to lunch again. Wanna prove to myself that what happened on our first date was a one-off.

She came to the restaurant in a cardigan. Outdoor was hot and I wondered why she wore cardigan. Thought she would wear it throughout but she sat down and took it off. Immediately I could see what I saw before, only this time add extra two days of stubbles. Two plus three equals five days.

Restaurant was a bit cold. By right, she should be wearing cardigan indoor and not outdoor. But she reversed the order. After ten minutes, she felt the cold and wore it back. By then, she already achieved her objective. I lost my appetite, and interest. After lunch, she wore it back outdoor when it was super hot.

Scholar really has brilliant but unorthodox ways to get her feelings across.
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Aiyoh.

You only want to confirm what you thought is true niah. What are you trying to prove? That she is not interested in you?

Anyways, lao auntie me, also wore a cardigan out in the Sun... why? Coz to protect myself from the harmful UV rays. I will wear long sleeves, wear sunglasses and carry umbrella everytime I stepped out of my office/hse for lunch. As long as its daytime, I will do that.

And so, when stepped into the building with aircon, will take out the cardigan because it was hot outside and now, need to cool oneself down. After a while, if feeling too cold, will wear the cardigan back.

Why is that so difficult to understand leh?!
 
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Rodimusprime6113 said:
Mediate daily twice for 30 min. Few months. But I can’t let go of the stubbles image.
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Last time i had an ons with a sg female who claimed to be a researcher n was aA star student, Average looking.

Halfway i leave liao. ***** disgusting
I have phobia after that, and it was over a decade ago
 
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Kia7200 said:
Last time i had an ons with a sg female who claimed to be a researcher n was aA star student, Average looking.

Halfway i leave liao. ***** disgusting
I have phobia after that, and it was over a decade ago
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How did u leave halfway? Was it as traumatizing to her as it was to u?

At least yours was real and honest. Either u do it or u don’t, not half half like mine.
 
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doratch said:
Aiyoh.

You only want to confirm what you thought is true niah. What are you trying to prove? That she is not interested in you?

Anyways, lao auntie me, also wore a cardigan out in the Sun... why? Coz to protect myself from the harmful UV rays. I will wear long sleeves, wear sunglasses and carry umbrella everytime I stepped out of my office/hse for lunch. As long as its daytime, I will do that.

And so, when stepped into the building with aircon, will take out the cardigan because it was hot outside and now, need to cool oneself down. After a while, if feeling too cold, will wear the cardigan back.

Why is that so difficult to understand leh?!
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If the first event hadn’t occurred, I wouldn’t have suspected anything. The first and second events taken together means she was trying to send me a message in an indirect but ingenious way.

I also observed my female friends, all don’t wear cardigan under hot sun and all wear in air conditioned indoors. Hers was reversed.
 
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