After going for massage for 20+ years, can confidently say massage strength got very little to do with actual muscles... right technique, right spots, small skinny lady can leave me bawling in pain. What I do not like about many male therapists is that they cannot moderate their strength.... tight muscles/bones cannot differentiate and just apply strength throughout, leaving me more bruised than relaxed.
Granted it is easier to find guys with enough strength than ladies with right technique.... but it is also easier to get injured and improperly treated by guys too. Bonesetters and chiropractors (quacks) I would definitely prefer male to females
Now... as for your cumback..... I think you get enough of it during your massages....
