A Failed Marraige

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Claim by your kid since after 21 already ah. child claim from parents even not divorce the kid also can claim from both parents in court if he want to further study or in NS right?
This is a really mess up law to allow kids that dont wan to work and just keep studying leeching off parents.
i guess mine will be taught to be this way also in future.
Ya. Lazy, don want work, prolong
 

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she will just drag on as long as possible to burn more money on my end as i need to pay for both side of the lawyer fee.
:eek::eek::eek: like that one ar so unfair... can ownself draft the divoce agreement?
 

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Just to clarify, I couldn't be bother with his story so I'm not the other person who thinks the same as you that there's something wrong with his story.

His story got anything wrong or not, I can't be bothered.

Just curious, why can't you be bothered with his story?
 

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I also find it funny that we don't know what TS ex-wife's income is from since she no longer uses the matrimonial home as a gambling den and how she pay for all the vacation, noting that she only ask TS to split bill. Besides, I don't understand how can she sell the house and give the proceeds to her parents if the house ownership is transferred to their son. So the custody of the first son is shared or TS only has visitation rights? If TS was 100% paying for everything prior, I don't understand how did TS lose custody of his son.

smells fishy, and I hope this is just CSB.

Probably CSB. Or a lot of details left out.
The numbers and facts simply don't add up.
 

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@hpv500 , I’m intrigued with your story .
Hope you can share more

Partial quote you “- my ex-wife and I were married in 2013 as well
- alot of things I gave in to her due to loving her, knowing the red flags but still going ahead with the marriage”

You did loved her before and even went ahead despite all the red flags

What went through your mind when you decided to go ahead with the red flagged marriage? You thought you were able to change her ? She’s too chio for you to give up ? You were too desperate to get married?

What made you realised that she is not worth it at all? Insults from her ? Her laziness ? Or what? What was the key break factor?

Apparently , you did loved her and must be quite deep. How did it all turn into hatred? Makes relationships appear scary 😅
 

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@hpv500 , I’m intrigued with your story .
Hope you can share more

Partial quote you “- my ex-wife and I were married in 2013 as well
- alot of things I gave in to her due to loving her, knowing the red flags but still going ahead with the marriage”

You did loved her before and even went ahead despite all the red flags

What went through your mind when you decided to go ahead with the red flagged marriage? You thought you were able to change her ? She’s too chio for you to give up ? You were too desperate to get married?

What made you realised that she is not worth it at all? Insults from her ? Her laziness ? Or what? What was the key break factor?

Apparently , you did loved her and must be quite deep. How did it all turn into hatred? Makes relationships appear scary 😅

very simple - respect, she doesnt respect me as a husband, doesnt respect my family, my parents

basic manners also dun have, like simple greeting, treating pple like transparent when we were staying tog before my BTO was ready to collect

sometimes u got to learn it the hard way, i guess i did that.

despite others telling me that she is not the one for me, but i still went ahead.

Love is blind, till it becomes stupidity.

once u been thru this sh*t, u grow up and learn about pple.

Even this year, 1 of my friends (considered bro alr, cos 15 years since knowing each other), he betrayed me by going after the same girl i was dating.

Nowadays humans cannot be trusted. To be exact, sometimes you cant even trust your ownself per say
 

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very simple - respect, she doesnt respect me as a husband, doesnt respect my family, my parents

basic manners also dun have, like simple greeting, treating pple like transparent when we were staying tog before my BTO was ready to collect

sometimes u got to learn it the hard way, i guess i did that.

despite others telling me that she is not the one for me, but i still went ahead.

Love is blind, till it becomes stupidity.

once u been thru this sh*t, u grow up and learn about pple.

Even this year, 1 of my friends (considered bro alr, cos 15 years since knowing each other), he betrayed me by going after the same girl i was dating.

Nowadays humans cannot be trusted. To be exact, sometimes you cant even trust your ownself per say
I respect you for not being a simp to a princess and hence you could walk away. Many guys would have stayed on.

But feel sorry for your kid (innocent party)

Did your so called brother manage to date your current gal?
 

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I respect you for not being a simp to a princess and hence you could walk away. Many guys would have stayed on.

But feel sorry for your kid (innocent party)

Did your so called brother manage to date your current gal?

he didnt manage to get her as well....cos the girl like me, not him...hahah but either way, i let both of them go....

dont like messy things going on...
 

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Since you have given up your share of the flat, the earnings she have gotten from the sales will effectively cover the treatment and costs of raising the boy. Tell this to your wife. You are not obliged to pay more than $700 in this case.
 
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