A loveless life

[kage]

probably feel insecure. even if got 1 million and can live on dividends/interest, will still feel insecure without having a job, due to society brainwashing.

TS is having tremendous stress being a sole caregiver despite having a helper as his sibling threw the whole responsibility to him alone.

In addition being busy at work, both burn him out.

Worse is probably nothing to motivate or look forward to ...

Nobody close to speak to as his dad is suffering from dementia, his mum not around anymore.
Even if he is sick or whatever, nobody will care or ask if he is ok.

 

[zzzzzzz]

Anyone same as me

no gf before. Zero

now also no love from family

only way is for me to practise self love .. but I don’t even have time for self love

I don’t feel human. I’m just a machine

i also dont have SO when happy got no one to shares with so that happiness can x2 and when got anyone sad got each other for accompany so that saddness divide 2

but i worse thatn u i havent been able to self love since about 35yo

 

[f-o-f!]

you got contact them and see whether got any other options or not

https://www.aic.sg/

second this. have you looked into something like dementia day care? more stimulation for for your dad, less worries about your helper burning out. i think some operate certain saturdays also, so caregivers can have time to run errands/have me-time as well.

 

[cleffa3000]

Anyone same as me

no gf before. Zero

now also no love from family

only way is for me to practise self love .. but I don’t even have time for self love

I don’t feel human. I’m just a machine

same here
but who care about love

sg give more problems for u to solve, until no time to love
need to worry about money/job
need to worry about parents
need to worry about own health

this 3 add up together already 忙死你了

 

[Kapish]

thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........

gays have very low standards that's why ... women are more discerning and picky

it's never too late to attract girls. for starters, smile and laugh more if you haven't already.

can't bring yourself to smile because you are depressed or stressed? go for therapy or counselling. after all you need someone to vent.

no time for self-care? then make time. 30 minutes for meditation per day is not a big ask

if you have bad teeth, go fix them. a great warm smile disarms people and encourages interactions.

girls are always sizing you up whereever you go; how you talk to people. how you treat service people like cleaners and waiters etc etc.

only thing holding you back is yourself bro ... no one is able to help you.

 

[ramlee]

gays have very low standards that's why ... women are more discerning and picky

it's never too late to attract girls. for starters, smile and laugh more if you haven't already.

can't bring yourself to smile because you are depressed or stressed? go for therapy or counselling. after all you need someone to vent.

no time for self-care? then make time. 30 minutes for meditation per day is not a big ask

if you have bad teeth, go fix them. a great warm smile disarms people and encourages interactions.

girls are always sizing you up whereever you go; how you talk to people. how you treat service people like cleaners and waiters etc etc.

only thing holding you back is yourself bro ... no one is able to help you.

Gheys got low standard?!? If you do not have a gym bod at least they won’t even look at you twice

 

[Spike]

thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........

Dude... you need to pick the right environment for the right people to approach you.. Try a more happening pub next time.

 

[ramlee]

Dude... you need to pick the right environment for the right people to approach you.. Try a more happening pub next time.

Taboo is one possibility

 

[ahboy82]

Dude... you need to pick the right environment for the right people to approach you.. Try a more happening pub next time.

Actually if guys look at moi, n moi gt no ger, might think 来都来了，看都看了...

 

[kodomo80]

TS, u wanna whine for a while can, everyone needs some avenues to rant and complain but dun do it for long. Ultimately only you can save yourselves, edmwers can only give you so much advice. So if you think life is boring or tiring for you now, go and find ways to add spice, add meaning, find help and sarpork for yourself in rl. Hard truth.

 

[accucore12]

get a pet lor.

 

[arsenalfc85]

TS is having tremendous stress being a sole caregiver despite having a helper as his sibling threw the whole responsibility to him alone.

In addition being busy at work, both burn him out.

Worse is probably nothing to motivate or look forward to ...

Nobody close to speak to as his dad is suffering from dementia, his mum not around anymore.
Even if he is sick or whatever, nobody will care or ask if he is ok.

Wow you summed up my entire situation so aptly.

What you typed is exactly how I feel about my situation now.

 

[K20A]

Wow you summed up my entire situation so aptly.

What you typed is exactly how I feel about my situation now.

Do you have any hobbies? join those interest group maybe can find your partner there

 

[ahboy82]

Wow you summed up my entire situation so aptly.

What you typed is exactly how I feel about my situation now.

Moi can uds yr feelings cos moi been there before

 

[The_Davis]

TS is having tremendous stress being a sole caregiver despite having a helper as his sibling threw the whole responsibility to him alone.

In addition being busy at work, both burn him out.

Worse is probably nothing to motivate or look forward to ...

Nobody close to speak to as his dad is suffering from dementia, his mum not around anymore.
Even if he is sick or whatever, nobody will care or ask if he is ok.

Why when I sick you never ask me if I’m ok or not

 

[The_Davis]

Wow you summed up my entire situation so aptly.

What you typed is exactly how I feel about my situation now.

Don’t worry, can come here to seek solace and comfort admists all the pain

 

[kage]

Why when I sick you never ask me if I’m ok or not

I see u always eat fry chicken appetite so good, should be well and kicking....

 

[kage]

Wow you summed up my entire situation so aptly.

What you typed is exactly how I feel about my situation now.

Ya, u see, EDMWs know u ... U are not alone ...

This forum is not always members pawn members one ..... Got Kampung spirits one

 

[The_Davis]

Ya, u see, EDMWs know u ... U are not alone ...

This forum is not always members pawn members one ..... Got Kampung spirits one

You also 1 Jan 2000 member

 

[kage]

You also 1 Jan 2000 member

I join 1996, but system overhaul they reset all to Jan 2000 ...