A loveless life

Kapish

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TS ... i see your negative posts and threads ... even as a guy i also don't want to be near you

who the hell want to date a negative person with self-defeating mindset?

i am 4/10 in looks and not rich. but i am comfortable in my own skin and project confidence and positivity. this is attractive to some girls; that's how i get my GF who is 6-7/10

so if you want to get a GF ever; please work on yourself. mentally and physically
 

4Dluckystrike

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try to date lar, not asking to marry right? Just try not to get chop carrot when asking ppl out..
 

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Anyone same as me

no gf before. Zero

now also no love from family

only way is for me to practise self love .. but I don’t even have time for self love

I don’t feel human. I’m just a machine
Yes love yourself and you'd have love life.

Some women are jealous when you have love in your life and want a piece of it.

So once you love yourself more, more women would notice and want to know you.

But since you have no time to love yourself, then you know the cause it's no time but didn't initiate to fix the cause..
 

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TS ... i see your negative posts and threads ... even as a guy i also don't want to be near you

who the hell want to date a negative person with self-defeating mindset?

i am 4/10 in looks and not rich. but i am comfortable in my own skin and project confidence and positivity. this is attractive to some girls; that's how i get my GF who is 6-7/10

so if you want to get a GF ever; please work on yourself. mentally and physically
thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........
 

kage

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thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........
Perhaps @PoloBoiBoi can give u some advice.
 

kage

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The last that ever she saw him
Carried away by a moonlight shadow
He passed on, worried and warning
Carried away by a moonlight shadow
Lost in a riddle that Saturday night
Far away on the other side
He was caught in the middle of a desperate fight
And she couldn't find how to push through
I can turn this into a song :o
 

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Think its about how one handle the relationship with others. No family but feel lonely then go outside make more friends, volunteer, helps others more. Can feel more connected with people even if don't have much of own. Don't need to wallow in self pity. Do something.
 

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I can turn this into a song :o
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focus1974

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Anyone same as me

no gf before. Zero

now also no love from family

only way is for me to practise self love .. but I don’t even have time for self love

I don’t feel human. I’m just a machine

self love also no time?
when you are stress, self love helps.

So maybe you should set aside some time for self-love to destress . hehe


But on all seriousness.
In a normal circumstance/scenario as a fully functioning adult, When you feel like the world is all going against you, then it's probably you going against the world.

Maybe it's time to introspect and see whether you are proactively making the right decision and taking the right actions towards your goals.
 

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thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........
Time to sexplore the other side :(
 

ramlee

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The last that ever she saw him
Carried away by a moonlight shadow
He passed on, worried and warning
Carried away by a moonlight shadow
Lost in a riddle that Saturday night
Far away on the other side
He was caught in the middle of a desperate fight
And she couldn't find how to push through
Boomer spotted :(
 

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self love also no time?
when you are stress, self love helps.

So maybe you should set aside some time for self-love to destress . hehe


But on all seriousness.
In a normal circumstance/scenario as a fully functioning adult, When you feel like the world is all going against you, then it's probably you going against the world.

Maybe it's time to introspect and see whether you are proactively making the right decision and taking the right actions towards your goals.

Self love have la. I have time to exercise, come to forums, watch some YouTube videos. But they are just very small pockets of rest time. I feel they are insufficient for me to recharge.

weekdays I Chiong work. Come home sometimes still need to settle stuff at home

weekends same thing. Do laundry, settle stuff at home etc. sometimes my helper take off then I need to play caregiver role whole day.

I know some of u will want to shoot me n say I weak la, yall have tougher lives than me etc. or why I so silly go do some housework when I have maid..

I do some housework is cuz I feel my maid need to take care of my dad plus also do some housework, can be siong, so I offset some of her housework by doing my own laundry, cleaning my own bedsheets etc. if I throw everything to her I think she will burn out. So I help when I can la.

but now I’m feeling quite burn out as well. >.<

or maybe I shouldn’t have gone back to full time job. Should have stuck to part time
 

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Self love have la. I have time to exercise, come to forums, watch some YouTube videos. But they are just very small pockets of rest time. I feel they are insufficient for me to recharge.

weekdays I Chiong work. Come home sometimes still need to settle stuff at home

weekends same thing. Do laundry, settle stuff at home etc. sometimes my helper take off then I need to play caregiver role whole day.

I know some of u will want to shoot me n say I weak la, yall have tougher lives than me etc. or why I so silly go do some housework when I have maid..

I do some housework is cuz I feel my maid need to take care of my dad plus also do some housework, can be siong, so I offset some of her housework by doing my own laundry, cleaning my own bedsheets etc. if I throw everything to her I think she will burn out. So I help when I can la.

but now I’m feeling quite burn out as well. >.<

or maybe I shouldn’t have gone back to full time job. Should have stuck to part time

oh.. caregiver stress.
This one really nobody can help apart from more maids or more family members come in.

or send old folks home, but the prohibitive cost in Singapore really means most are using DIY home-care solutions. Maybe it's time for govt to setup singapore government hospital/community hospital/old folks home in Johore with medisave/medishield enabled?

Really larger living spaces, cheaper elderly care expenses and the children can go as often as they want to see the elderly.


As for your gf issue. Ya , in all honesty, if i had a know a girl who had to be the caregiver for the elderly at home, i also would not want to step into a relationship. That's why I think end of day is between old folks home and regaining your life or DIY homecare and accept reality.

But that's just me and what i would do if i can only hire 1 maid and there's only 1 sole breadwinner cum caregiver, in terms of the gf relationship.
 
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thats where you're wrong

recently, strange enough, i have stranger guys approaching me and talk to me. and theyr're not insurance or property agents.

not long ago, i went to the gym, a guy whom i don't know struck a conversation with me. Yesterday i was jogging near my house and at the fitness corner, another guy also suddenly came and talked to me.

However, women all run away from me.

maybe i got the kind of looks that attract males instead of females.

maybe its time that i turn........

we here ish bbfa crub... notch ghey crub... @s-ghost :s22::frown:
 
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