Adopt or give birth better?

[seekaliao]

I am just wondering cause my gf wants 3 children. I dont want her to go through the pain of pregnancy and labour 3 times. So jist thinking of having just 1 and adopt another 2 instead. I am very open to such things. What do you all think?

 

[Tardis]

You adopt, you confirm will be bias towards your own child one.
Then after that the 2 adopted knows that they are adopted they will bully your child one

 

[blackbaron76]

Doesn't matter if you really like and want to have kids.

 

[scourge]

Give birth, throw the baby away, then adopt the baby.

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[danny8x8]

Doesn't matter. Your right and left hand cannot give birth.

 

[eclipsemints]

I am just wondering cause my gf wants 3 children. I dont want her to go through the pain of pregnancy and labour 3 times. So jist thinking of having just 1 and adopt another 2 instead. I am very open to such things. What do you all think?

have 3 kids here you GGed faster.

Anyway give birth best. own flesh and blood. why you want to look after other people's children?

 

[Whisper]

U scare her hole become too big then u no feeling right.

 

[tingsters]

ask her to give birth 1st one then talk about the 2nd and 3rd ba.

 

[peaceheart]

Job thread - checked
Gf thread - checked
Jap colleague - Tbc

 

[Meowyz]

Have own children is better.If want to adopt dont give birth will be better..

 

[pikafunk3]

Adopt if u don't mind possible inherited diseases

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[Mancunian2]

adopt , what if you get problematic kids

among relatives and friends, I know of 3 cases
1. adopted son problematic gambler, and the gambler's son bisexual, married but created scandals
2. adopted daughter stupid genes, failed psle 2 times, grown up Liao but now seldom contact
3. only happy case. adopted daughter grown and up and now big4 audit partner, filial to adopted parents

 

[gnoes85]

Pain of labour can be solve if u go under the knives.

 

[Big Eyes!]

Adopt because scared of pain is quite stupid in my opinion.

 

[MacSpicy Cheeze]

I was adopted. And i hate my birth mother when i met her 7 years ago.. For the 1st time. I hope she die

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[Targaryen]

most want kids because it is their own. if you tell them cannot give birth but can adopt, they rather not have kids.

adopt is the way to go

 

[MacSpicy Cheeze]

Yeah.. Forgot.. She pass away already

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[HeadQuarters]

Adopt from where? Myanmar or Cambodia?

 

[Reflector85]

I am just wondering cause my gf wants 3 children. I dont want her to go through the pain of pregnancy and labour 3 times. So jist thinking of having just 1 and adopt another 2 instead. I am very open to such things. What do you all think?

wow, 3 children? Tough to have 1 already nowadays, wan 3 ? need to think carefully bro

 

[tomsss]

After first child birth, already stretched liao mah. 2nd and 3rd be a breeze.