Adopt or give birth better?

[pattanispirit]

Same happened to my uncle, adopted 3 kids, end up

1st daughter become bar girl
2nd son craftsman - decent life
3rd son grey, take drug

Most babies up for adoption, come from problematic family, unweb mum, gambler dad, etc.

So, the gene can't be changed, all 3 can't study type, pri sch max

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My first aunt was adopted by my grandparents. She grew up just fine like her other sisters.

One of my aunt was given away for adoption, she lived a better life n have better achievements than her sisters who wasn't given away.

My youngest aunt-in-law was also given away to a better family, brought up in Angmo speaking family, go overseas study ect. Also living better than her siblings who isn't given away. Life path average lo...

not all r as good as u mentioned.

my grandma gave up one of my aunt for adoption.

this aunt become local 大家姐 who was influential person in both black (underground) and white (polis) in one of bolehland city.

she will be the one to settle any local dispute, but heard many yrs ago she was locked up before.

last 20 yrs she reconcile w my grandma, so occasionally still meet her during wedding dinners, gathering, etc. but never asked her about her history.

the rest of my grandma sons & daughters r decent ppl.

this aunt was born leader and happened that her adopted mother was involved in vices too.

then, the daughter (the bar girl) who was adopted by my uncle, was from this aunt adopted mother's family. sound complicated ?

 

[Peony牡丹]

not all r as good as u mentioned.

my grandma gave up one of my aunt for adoption.

this aunt become local 大家姐 who was influential person in both black (underground) and white (polis) in one of bolehland city.

she will be the one to settle any local dispute, but heard many yrs ago she was locked up before.

last 20 yrs she reconcile w my grandma, so occasionally still meet her during wedding dinners, gathering, etc. but never asked her about her history.

the rest of my grandma sons & daughters r decent ppl.

this aunt was born leader and happened that her adopted mother was involved in vices too.

then, the daughter (the bar girl) who was adopted by my uncle, was from this aunt adopted mother's family. sound complicated ?

That's why lo. Adopted no guarantee confirm all good or all bad.

Same as having own kids, doesn't means all kids who grow up with biological family won't go waywards.

 

[yiyiyi1234]

give birth of course