Advice on cheating GF

[maikichai]

any ex-gf beedio to share?

 

[agent_719]

Game over liao la

is either you treat her as **** buddy with zero intention to move on next stage of life or jump move on and dump her, find a new one

 

[Akky85]

Why do people stay with cheating partner?

Cos they dun wanna feel like they lost the game.

 

[HoLoGram]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

I go hotels sibeh alot of times for work liao leh.

Meetings conducted at hotels.

Better be sure first.

 

[codemasterguy]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

ask her direct, dont assume things.
if she admit, time to let go. Stop your losses.

 

[Whimsica]

Maybe she is in the hotel to attend a seminar on How To Be A Wonderful Wife?

 

[Wstc333]

Aiya don't waste time la. Revenge simi. Just move on

 

[nyvrem]

30 yo should be dating 23 yo fresh Uni grad zeh zeh rah

 

[LWZ]

+1 in another petdog thread

 

[TrollAndOgres]

My first thought was, i also always go hotel... Cos their toilet cleaner lol.

But red flag is the gf lie to u about working late. High chance is green beret liao. If really not csb then let go ba u can find better ones

 

[Abernatine]

Don't bother. It's not like she's your wife or anything. Just break up and find another girl, there will always be another.

 

[Tony.Manero]

Forgot to log out your account?

What's his other acct?

 

[galmongie]

feels more and more like csb leh

already follow her to hotel, but don't know whether she went restaurant, washroom, conference room or really the hotel room that you are assuming

ts must be kiddo, watch too much shows
hotel can only go and 'open room' is it?

I personally never think so much when I step into hotel leh
Can be use washroom, or eat at their restaurant

 

[DrAwkward]

What's his other acct?

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Toiletpaper80]

Need to find her mother or sister to firm jap docu

 

[jack-320]

Friend = TS

 

[Laneige]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

U can either engage PI or u be the PI or u ask her

provided wana marry
Don’t want then ask her in the face

 

[i need beer]

Actually hor.

Last week moi also went hotel.

But I honestly wasn't there to cheat.

I was just lazy to travel home so booked a room to sleep.

My friends and I used to do this too last time after clubbing.

Oh yes, about you catching her hor. It's not a bad thing leh. Means you now have a free "get out of jail card."

Maybe can keep this card for use in future. No need to get too angry or upset.

Now still can do that? My friends and I tried to do that recently to dump one of our drunk friends there overnight because we dont know his address. All say cannot only a certain budget chain can.

 

[keytheboogamer]

Soooo I'm 30M and currently attached, or not soon.. Just last week I caught my gf entering a hotel (entirely coincidental as I saw her near a crowded mall and only followed her for 400m or so), when she told me she was staying late for work. I know I'm assuming she's cheating but I can strongly feel it as she has been sneaky around her phone recently and her entire mood and appetite for sex have totally dampened too. For context we have strong sex drives and enjoy the frequent and intimate times. I'm not lazy and keep my shape up for her, so can't say that I'm not putting in my fair share of effort.

I'm just rollercoaster-ing between angry and upset, and I wish I could do smth to get back at her before i break up with her. But I guess that would be petty I don't know.. any advice?

Go hotel only. Maybe she want to go hotel toilet?
Or looking at the venue for company function ?