Failed marriages :- why?

coyote

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Divorce rate is quite high these days.
Why do married couples (definitely they were in love with each other once upon a time) fall out and divorce?
Can share your own experience / factors causing the divorce

Are you married? If not married why you worry?
 

ichinisan

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Marriage is just a cert now. Especially here in sg, where couples are in a hurry to get married because of housing instead of love.
 

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Divorce rate is quite high these days.
Why do married couples (definitely they were in love with each other once upon a time) fall out and divorce?
Can share your own experience / factors causing the divorce
cos one become itchy and strayed.

girls can stray too nowadays.
 

wwenze

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The shop sell you cai png

Tastes like **** and the shop still charge $10 no meat, just because it is located in a high rental area in Singapore

Will you continue to visit the stall
 

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I still remember long time ago, when the western side people married and divorce, people here feel will not go through such situation.

Now, it become "normal"
 

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Ego is the main issue
people now r more self centred n dont know what they want.

last time people tend to give in more or try to work ard e problem, now couples r more expressive n if anything dont work or dont go their way, they will just flip table n go separate ways.
Most couple don't stay together until they get married ma. But once they move in together, everyday see each other chao bin till sian lor. All the chao kuan also come out.

Normal couple always just date once a week ,go nice restaurants nice cafe. But once married everyday won't be nice as being on dates.

Titus is a very good example also. Shotgun rush marriage also won't work most of the time.

All the divorces I’ve seen are divorced due to egoism.

Very easy to tell that is due to egoism - each of them will always blame the other party for all the mistakes done which led to divorce. If one can step down and just 认错 and the other reciprocate, they will realise that the marriage issnt so bad and can be rebuilt.
Cannot meet needs and expectations.
Then after that, can see profile appearing on dating app, stated Divorce, separated, has kids and want to find another partner
 

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Real Buddhists won't marry in the first place.
Real buddhist will know what's the meaning of getting married.

I happened to knew someone who is a buddhist robed and disrobed because he knew the primary 5 precept, one of it is refrain from sexual misconduct.

After married, then this won't consider as breaking the precept.
 

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when something build on shaky ground, it always fell down, sooner or later..

sho make sure, whatever rs chu build, not based on whatever trivial things, rike, impulse feelings, segs, beauty, wealth, similarity, etc

yes, must hab chemical, if notch hao can get attraction, right?

but it's not enough to start marriage imo..
 

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fundamental marital values non existent. how can marriages be good?
 
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