The way i get around ABSD is to negotiate for a longer OTP period. If the seller is not in a hurry to sell, negotiate for a 3 -6 month OTP, while u look for a buyer for your current place. As long as Sell OTP exercise earlier than Buy OTP exercise date, then you are good on ABSD.
Icic. I also concerned about space with a growing family. Personally I don't mind HDB (get a jumbo or mansionette) but the misus is a sucker for nice views and condo facilities. ABSD is ok because will be refunded anyway but still it's more than 100k of cash, not withstanding the 20% downpayment another 200k.
Wow you still can go for 2 holidays and ya, children expenses are massive. Looks like a lifestyle compromise is inevitable unless we earn 66k a month. Lol.


